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To have a kid or not?
Replies: 20Last Post July 9 3:28pm by x FENRIS x
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( Anonymous )

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I'm 18.
My ex wanted a  kid  a  couple months ago.
She is a beautiful  blonde.But i said no,  education needs to be done.Once i am out of Uni. I told her we could have one.

But now i sort of want to have a kid just to see how it turns out, you know?
My friend also thinks about how how her kid would look, i guess we  are just curious. lol.


But, what do you think?
Stupid idea to have one right now at  18, huh?


5:55 am on July 9, 2008
Sunshine Buddy


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Yes. Stupid.

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X Milllie X


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I think so...

education first so you'll be able to provide for a kid :)

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ENicole


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Your first instinct was to wait...go with that

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skittybaby

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Dont, it will ruin your life having it to early because
1. you might not be able to cope
2. sleepless nights
3. you wont be able to go out and enjoy life properly

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Bonolove


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just wait...education is important, you don't need anything slowing that down...

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Natsy


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nah not so stupid. start trying like a few months before the end of uni xx

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( Anonymous )

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Quote: from skittybaby at 5:56 am on July 9, 2008

Dont, it will ruin your life having it to early because  
1. you might not be able to cope
2. sleepless nights
3. you wont be able to go out and enjoy life properly


Not to sound stuck up...but...i have a lot of money.From inheritance.
So money would be no issue at all.

5:58 am on July 9, 2008
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I would wait, its better if you are sure you can provide for the baby and yourselves.

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At that age, you're at the "right" sort of stage, in an evolutionary sense, to have kids. I think your mind will try to persuade you to do that, through orgasms in sex, wanting to raise offspring, and yes, even curiosity.

Your head seems to be telling you that it's more wise to wait, but you still feel the urges to do it anyway.

That said, I hope your understanding is better and will help YOU make a decision. I offer no advice or suggestions.

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( Anonymous )

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Quote: from Natsy at 5:57 am on July 9, 2008

nah not so stupid. start trying like a few months before the end of uni xx
In 4 years....i guess that is not that bad.
I want to be a young dad, so i guess  at  22-24   would be a  good age to have a kid.

5:59 am on July 9, 2008
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Yeah, stupid idea.  Education first.

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gorjaz25


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Quote: from Anonymous at 10:55 pm on July 9, 2008

But now i sort of want to have a kid just to see how it turns out, you know?


that is the stupidest thing i have ever heard
u cant just have a baby and see how it turns out. having a baby is a life changing decision, its not something u just do because you feel like it, its a commitment that u have to be prepared for, you need to be financially stable, have a home for the child, be able to send the child to school eventually, be able to be at home 24\7 with the child, have u thought of any of this
? i would seriously re think how u are going about this because it doesnt seem like you are being very mature about it


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somelikeitred


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Yes. Stupid. And she is your ex?

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How do you expect to be at college and taking classes with a child to care for?!?!

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