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How long is too long?
Replies: 12Last Post July 8 7:51pm by andymac1
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How long can you wait for someone to change? when do you draw the line and say you're sick of hurting? Is it even worth waiting?

Love is a very unfair feeling.

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Love should feel good... not unfair.

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I think it's silly to wait for anyone to change. Even if it seems like it...the person stays the same. In my experience anyway.

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you should never expect a person to change. 9 times outta 10 it doesn't happen

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A person is set in their ways, you should never want that person to change in the first place.

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I wait until I find someone who's actually better. Then I can forget about all my experiences with the one that treated me like crap...

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heiffer


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if they're not showing any potential or effort and you can't see them changing it may be too long already

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don't wait for them to change, they never will, instead do something good that will make them realize they have to change... Just love unconditionally and everything will follow.  

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some people dont think its worth it
but sometimes it is.
Ive waited for this girl for 9 months now, she first told me she didnt like me
and finally we kissed and it felt like the best moment of my life.

7:45 pm on July 8, 2008
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Quote: from penguinsrule at 7:42 pm on July 8, 2008

you should never expect a person to change. 9 times outta 10 it doesn't happen

i agree!


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Quote: from penguinsrule at 7:42 pm on July 8, 2008

you should never expect a person to change. 9 times outta 10 it doesn't happen

I should have wrote that better. I dont want him to change who he is.. just the way he feels for me. I know he loves me.. but he doesn't want a relationship with me...

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iCanSeeYay


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Quote: from Perfectly Flawed 19 at 7:49 pm on July 8, 2008

Quote: from penguinsrule at 7:42 pm on July 8, 2008

you should never expect a person to change. 9 times outta 10 it doesn't happen

I should have wrote that better. I dont want him to change who he is.. just the way he feels for me. I know he loves me.. but he doesn't want a relationship with me...


In this case I strongly recommend not waiting for him to feel how you feel.

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andymac1


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Well, the things worth having don't normally come easy, but sometimes there's a point where that person simply isn't worth it because they've had too many chances to change, and it's up to both people to work on the relationship.

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