you start dating for a while and then randomly that person decides to go on a "break" with you because they can't tell if they like you or this other person more. well, you sit and wait things out and then eventually your gf/bf chooses you. heh....it's only the beginning of the relationship, things will get better, right?  anyway not much time at all passes and ur gf/bf starts yelling at you over EVERYTHING! the smallest little thing and they're just freaking out on you. meh things can still change right? well, it gets to the point where she/he starts hitting you all the time and calling you random disgusting names and treating you like a dog with mange. that doesn't mean she/he doesn't love you, right? well, things continue from then on, never getting better.

two years of this crap you go through for this person that treats you like dirt, only occassionally being a good gf/bf

then randomly...

they sit you down to "talk". she/he tells you that they dont feel like they're in love with you anymore and thinks yall should take another "break"

after two years

two years and they couldn't even figure out whether they love you or not

what would you do in this situation and why? please give me a well thought-out answer and explain why you chose this answer

would you choose to wait things out again and hope to God that she/he doesn't leave you?

or do you take a stand and finally say "i'm tired of all the crap you put me through. if you can't tell whether you love me or not after two years, then i'm through with you!"

cus you see, this is happening to my idiot friend who never does anything that's good for himself. he's the kinda guy that will sit back and endure all the abuse. why? i have no idea. i never asked him cus he would flip out if i did.

and i just wanna know what you would do if you were in this case.