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i wanna be thin, he doesn't want me to?
Replies: 20Last Post July 9, 2008 1:44am by devilindisguize
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ok. i'm 5'7 and 155 lbs (spread evenly around my body). i want to get down to 120-125 but my bf doesn't want me to. he think i'm fine now but i AM actually chubby no matter what my BMI says. he says 10 lbs tops but i'm thinking more like 30-35...

however. i can't seem to lose any anyway so it looks like i'm stuck. should i give up or keep trying?  


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keep going!

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My sister is 5'7.5" and she's like 155-160 and she looks perfect to me
Her stomache is flat and her legs are long and skinny and she's not super thin like everybody else around here..
It's nice

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ouch it wont reach my mouth
if i could do it myself i'd probably never leave the house
but i can't so here's where you come in
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porcelain cinderella


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If it's something you want and it'll make you happy then do it. Duh he's your boyfriend but you can't do what he wants if it's not what you want.
But thats just my opinion

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ashleyacid


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Go for it.
You just have to work with it.

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blufindr


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why do you want to be thin?

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Just Waiting Here


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You need to be comfortable with your body, and if it's something you aren't happy with, then you can change it.  The best way to go about doing it is probably just exercising.  You don't need to change the diet, and just exercise to tone up the areas you aren't exactly happy with?  It's up to you... at the end of the day, you need to be comfortable win your own body, right?  But like I said, I wouldn't go with dieting... I would just exercise.  This will keep your body healthy, and help keep you in a shape and size that you can feel comfortable with.

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2ndbreakfast79


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keep trying. and it should really only matter that you are comfortable with the way that you look, not what someone else thinks you should look like, unless it's an extreme situation like anorexia or severe obesity.

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camillelong 26


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rather than trying to lose weight why not try toning?

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i wouldnt lie about something like that.

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pinkertongrass


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do what you want. He probably just doesn't want you to get "out of his league" or something.

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mguitar1234


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who's body is it? yours, correct... therefore you shouldn't give a shit what your boyfriend says!

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desireelovesyouu


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When you are taller like that it would be worse if your weight was less like you want it to be.

The weight you are now seems perfect.
Im around 5'7"

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windmillkickyodog


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just be healthy. none of that anorexia bullshit.

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dark eric


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If he wants u to be chubby then dont lose weight

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tkedwn119


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I'm 5' 4" and 120lbs.  Don't know if you need to cut that much

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