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Please Please Help.
Replies: 10 — Last Post July 4 2:40am by kslice24
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( Lost91 )


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I dont know how to explain my situation.
Me and this guy thats my friend. But basically we're more than friends. And we act like bf/gf just without the label.
Anyways we always text. Basically all day, everyday.
Except for the past 2 days, his messages seem less flirty, and waaayyy fewer.
He's not saying the cute things he used to.
And I have this baadd feeling in the pit of my heart. Like something terrible is happening.
I want this feeling to go away, but I dont know whats wrong.
I dont think he really likes me anymore. And he just doesnt know how to break it to me, beccause he knows it'll kill me.
I dont think anyone can really understand what exactly I'm going through.
Him and I have been through a lot.
I dont want to lose him, but I think he's tired of me.
I'm going to his house tomorrow for 4th of July.
He says he wants me to, but would he really tell me if he didnt.

Am I just being dumb, and have nothing to worry about?
Or is something really up?
Please Please Please help me. Sigh...  

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sai


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You'd make the whole situation easier if you expressed your doubts to him. You bringing it up first would make it a little less difficult for him to open up.
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Skyler72


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Maybe he is just busy. It sounds like he still cares about ou a lot, even if it means in a less... bf/gf way.

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DanaStar


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I'm sure he wants you there for the 4th of July, I mean your his friend. Why wouldn't he want his friend there?

Confront him about it, ask him if he really is loosing interest in you. It might have nothing to do with loosing interest, maybe he's going through a rough patch. People tend to retreat into themselves when they go through those patches...

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( Lost91 )


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Yeah, but if i tell him about my doubts and stuff, he'll be like
Gosh why dont you trust me. Blah Blah Blah.
He'll like blow up at me.
1:45 am on July 4, 2008 | Joined April 2008 | 17 Days Active
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Birdo


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It's absolutely nothing to worry. We get tired of doing all the "cute" little things that make girls giggle so much.

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Seifer


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i wouldn't worry about it because if he's like me then he's probably just worried that he might screw up somehow
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sai


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Quote: from Lost91 at 12:45 pm on July 4, 2008
Yeah, but if i tell him about my doubts and stuff, he'll be like  
Gosh why dont you trust me. Blah Blah Blah.  
He'll like blow up at me.  

Nevertheless, just try. Better than driving yourself crazy.

Post edited at 2:01 am on July 4, 2008 by sai

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scott sm


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just talk to him to see what the problem is. if u dont you might make matters worse
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( Lost91 )


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What if I've asked him, "Whats the matter"
And he just said, nothings the matter.
Do I keep on pressing it?
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kslice24


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i KNOW how you feel...me and this guy were like together, always texting cute things and one day he just totally stopped...i had that hollow feeling in my chest. you know?

hopefully maybe he was just busy, or something. he probably wants you there for the 4th, just see how that goes. theres always other people out there to text cute things to :}

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