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Alright this is going to sound lame but here goes. My boyfriend and I arent experienced when it comes to dating at all. He's 22 and im 21. We are totally geeks and social awkwardness happend alot. Anyways here goes we have the basics down when it comes to kissing(like good-bye kiss) but this whole make out thing is awkward to say the least. We tried it once but it didnt go so well. I ended up laughing which yea not that romantic and probabky hurt his ego. But the laugh happened because i kept thinking I have no clue what im doing.He keeps saying he is a terrible kisser. So IDk what to do or say to him. Besides I have no experience in this stuff either. So here it is any tips on improving this whole makeout thing would be awesome. And please no responses of it will come naturally because uhh yea for me and him apparently this is not the case
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Justins Luvmuffin
Executive
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just do what your instincts tell you. don't worry about how bad you're doing and it'll go ALOT better.
------- Ciera - "You can sit here and cry over it..or you can go to his house and fix it."
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tearsinheaven
Connoisseur
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well, it honestly will come naturally. me & my boyfriend were noobs too (at 17), and somehow it worked out for us. we just kind of learned together.
------- RIP my dear friends gone in '06 --like the angel
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iluvkeatin
Wealthy Hobo
Ad Free
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look it really does honestly come natural. just KEEP practicing and it will get better. there is nothing anyone can tell you you will just have to learn on your own...so just go for it
------- Nothing is as easy as it looks, everything takes longer than you expect & if anything can go wrong it will- at the worst possible moment!
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daveythewavey19
Dairy Product Addict
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its natural, just for gods sake, DONT LAUGH, it sooo freakin annoying when a girl laughs during intimate stuff, makes me lose my confidence
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lissa29
Novice
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man.. the first time i made out i remember thinking "i don't know what i'm doing" the whole time, lol. it comes naturally over time! you will learn fast, just make sure you guys practice a lot ;)
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QisQ
Executive
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If your both in the same boat then dont worry about it. Just keep going at it and it should develope.
------- "Life is a beautiful struggle." - Talib Kwali
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Evolutionism
Professional
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Don't worry too much about it. As many other people have been telling you, just let it happen naturally.
------- Evolutionism 本 諾
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Lovehim4ever
Grasshopper
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Just tell him youre not laughing because of him, but because you don't know what to do. Overall just don't worry about it and do whatever makes you feel good! You have to be passionate about each other to enjoy it.
------- We come to love not by finding a perfect person, but by learning to see an imperfect person perfectly.
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somelikeitred
Wealthy Hobo
Patron
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let your emotions take over and you will see how you react.
------- Rainforest Action Network
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