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So, I have friends at school who have decided to tell me that I need to break up with my boyfriend because we have partaken in sexual sin i.e. premarital sex. (mind you I go to a baptist university). Well, i understand the needing to stop sexual sin thing, but I honestly do not feel in my heart that that is what God wants for my relationship with my boyfriend. Instead, I really believe that it should be addressed between the two of us, taken head on, and changed. Well, my friends refuse to accept this. They presented me with 1 Corinthians something or other that says you should flee sexual sin. I said ok, but I don't think that literally means to flee the situation and not face it head on. They say humans are weak, which we are, but they keep using examples of other people whose relationships were ruined in the long run due to premarital sex. ok. well i'm not those people. Honestly. So last night we had a conversation about this...another one....which basically consisted of everything I say being picked apart completely and holes being poked in what i say when what I say is completely legitimate. I honestly got so mad. I love these people, but they are way off base here. They refuse to even think about things from my perspective. I got so mad that I like deleted them as friends and said I never wanted to talk to them again. And, if you really knew me, you'd know I NEVER get mad so for me to go to that length is rather ridiculous. So, basically, I don't quite know what to do. I know what they are telling me to do is not what God really wants for me. But they refuse to budge on their opinion of the situation. I don't know if I should apologize or what. What should I do?
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badangelgurl
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do what your heart says
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fml
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bella elizabeth swan
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ignore them do wot u want
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this is my real name not stolen from twilight! promise :D
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BleedingSteelWings
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do not be part of the flock
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For you these wings bleed my enemies' blood
so I may one day fly...
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Asia Sha
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But, How is HE feeling toward it all? You have to address what he feels to see where to go with your relationship.
I agree with you, not your friends. It's your decision. Make the attempt to stop sinning in such a way, and work on the relationship from there.
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12:46 pm on May 28, 2009 | Joined: Aug. 2008 | Days Active: 81
Join to learn more about Asia Sha North Carolina, United States | Straight Female | Posts: 795 | Points: 1,682
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My boyfriend agrees with me. He and I both realize that the sinning in our relationship needs to stop, and we are more than willing to stop. But my friends don't even see that as an option really. They say the scripture says that I should flee and they literally want me to flee. And another problem with this is over the last year these two friends of mine have helped me so much through personal issues that I really don't want to be mad at them about this. But I also don't want to apologize because I want them to realize that they are wrong this one time. They are stubborn as mess.
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that's not the point of this man.
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BleedingSteelWings
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Quote: from Anonymous at 5:26 pm on May 28, 2009
 that's not the point of this man.
what is the point of this?
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For you these wings bleed my enemies' blood
so I may one day fly...
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