can you access the router?a.k.a. go to start>run>type: cmd in there type: ipconfig
where it says default gateway (usually its 192.168.1.1)get that number and type it in your browser, it will most likely ask for your user name and password, look up "(place router model here a.k.a. linksys 43721 or whatever) default credentials" and get the user name and pass for it, type that in, and your into the router, when there look for "port forwarding" and froward 3074 to the i.p. of your xbox
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you know you lol @ this