my life is going good right now. my job is giving me more hours, my friends are cool and everything is going perfect with the parents and pretty much everything else except i feel like something is missing. its kind of funny, before i got into college i made a list of all the things i wanted to do or get and ive actually got most of them down after only a year. i got my own place, support myself entirely, have my own car and a job that gives me enough money to pay rent and live a fun life but im still missing that one thing i grew up in major city but in a private community so my experiences with girls have been limited. what i really want is a girlfriend. plain and simple
but i dont want a girlfriend for the sake of just having one. i want to experience that connection with a special someone. thats whats missing and thats what i need and want in my life. i dont want to go out and look for a girlfriend because i know that if i force things to happen they wont come out right. is this the right approach or what should i do?