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Because they decided they didn't want all the sexual things. Many people in general don't just date for sex. I don't, for one. She might have actually wanted to be friends, and you pushed your sexual agenda upon her, and she didn't want it. Try just being her friend first.

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this is exactly the kind of horseshit women perpetuate...if you try being friends first, without pushing a sexual agenda then you become friends and she uses the excuse "oh we can't take our relationship further, it would ruin the friendship"...essentially, women will pick and choose how they want to spin something...and its not without good cause, its usually because they don't want to hurt the guy's feelings but honestly it'd be easier if we all just communicated honestly with one another...like instead of "lets just be friends now" try "i'm no longer sexually attracted to you"

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i don't know, but i totally understand where u r coming from. i think that guys should come with instruction manuals

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if left to our own preferences guys would not be complicated at all...in fact a lot of us still dont/cant play the games that force women to "read" men or pick up on "signals"...if it were up to us, a guy would walk up to a girl, say "hey you're attractive, do you have any interest in getting to know me?" and the affirmative answer would then lead to a conversation while an answer in the negative would lead to the guy moving on. And yes, a simple no might hurt a guys immediate feelings, but in the long run what good is it to force him to try to impress you. God gave us the power to communicate openly without ridiculous displays and rituals...we are not birds presenting for our mates to attract them.

Once you develop feelings for somebody, there is never a guarantee those feelings will last. One or the other always strays, and that's how relationships end (unless you're lucky and it's mutual). How else do you think everybody breaks up? One person loses some emotion, perhaps even cheats, or perhaps treats the other like crap because they no longer care, or they just want to get away all of a sudden. It happens all the time.

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