My dad lives a few states away. He just told me that he probably won't make able to make it to my graduation because of his back problems and the airplane.
I understand that but I'm surprised because he has always been so "proud" and "supportive" of me, how could he not go to my graduation? He's my dad, I want him there, but I can't make him feel bad about it.. Should I be hurt? Or like.. should this not be a big deal at all?
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marine chic
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I don' think it should be a huge deal, seeing as he's physically incapable of attending.
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hersheyparker
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You can be disappointed but think about it this way, so is he.
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l0ckert3ch
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He's making excuses.. he should find a way to get there.
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soldier side
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he hates you i guess.
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mandieelovess
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Don't make him feel bad. be disapointed, but don't let him know that you're dispointed. i'm sure he would come if he could.
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superfreak
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he i phycically unable no reason you shouldnt be dissappointed
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RoseBeautyMagical416
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He is probably disappointed that he can't be there for you. I mean has back problems, I don't think he purposely did that to not be there for you, especially if he has always been supportitve in the past. It is okay to feel a little hurt and disappointed, but he also feels that way cause he can't be there for you and he knows it means a lot to you
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