What do you think?

I should probably talk to him about it.

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I wanna scream" I Love You" from the top of my lungs,

But I'm afraid that someone else will hear me.

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Say, "Cum on me!"

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Like while we are going at it?

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I wanna scream" I Love You" from the top of my lungs,

But I'm afraid that someone else will hear me.

I, personally, have never had a guy choose to not cum when we're having sex, so I can't really give you advice based on experience, but it may make him feel a bit more at-ease knowing what he stands with you in regards to his orgasm.

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So when you're happy (Hurray!), or sad (Aw!),
Or frightened (Eeek!), or mad (Rats!)
An interjection starts a sentence right.

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Quote: from imakethetest66 at 12:20 am on Nov. 19, 2008

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Say, "Cum on me!"

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Like while we are going at it?

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Yeah. Just let him know he can nut on you or maybe in or around you. Just let him know.

He is probably afraid to, tho honestly even with the pill i still use a condom. Its just a worry free luxury.

Just ask him if maybe you can help him orgasm some other way, maybe some oral or something.

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Drinking non-alcoholic beer is like going
down on your cousin. Sure it tastes the same,
but it ain't right. - Sooke

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Most guys I've been with are pretty excited to find out that I'm open to them cumming on me, so that could very well be the reason.

I, personally, have never had a guy choose to not cum when we're having sex, so I can't really give you advice based on experience, but it may make him feel a bit more at-ease knowing what he stands with you in regards to his orgasm.

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Like I know I get pissed when I don't have an orgasm when I have sex, and he is always the one who initiates the sex, not me.

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I wanna scream" I Love You" from the top of my lungs,

But I'm afraid that someone else will hear me.

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Quote: from imakethetest66 at 12:20 am on Nov. 19, 2008

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Say, "Cum on me!"

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Like while we are going at it?

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"You make me feel so good! I'm going to cum all over you, and I want you to cum all over me!"
"Do you want to put it on my stomach? I want you to!"
Or the very straightforward "cum on me this time" is always handy.

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So when you're happy (Hurray!), or sad (Aw!),
Or frightened (Eeek!), or mad (Rats!)
An interjection starts a sentence right.

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You should talk to him about it.  

He is probably afraid to, tho honestly even with the pill i still use a condom. Its just a worry free luxury.  

Just ask him if maybe you can help him orgasm some other way, maybe some oral or something.

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I was going to bring up the condom thing, hell I was even going to bring condoms, but the ones I have will be too small.

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I wanna scream" I Love You" from the top of my lungs,

But I'm afraid that someone else will hear me.

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Quote: from misssmadejavuu at 12:20 am on Nov. 19, 2008

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Quote: from imakethetest66 at 12:20 am on Nov. 19, 2008

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Say, "Cum on me!"

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 Like while we are going at it?

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Yea, sure, why not. Sometimes in the heat of the moment is the best, most stress-free (I mean, who really wants to talk about where he should cum when you're having tea and toast?!) time to bring up new ideas. You can say it however you feel comfortable:

"You make me feel so good! I'm going to cum all over you, and I want you to cum all over me!"
"Do you want to put it on my stomach? I want you to!"
Or the very straightforward "cum on me this time" is always handy.

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Like afterwards he was like "What are you thinking about" and I wanted to be like "Why don't you ever let yourself finish when we have sex?"
But I was too chicken shit.

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I wanna scream" I Love You" from the top of my lungs,

But I'm afraid that someone else will hear me.

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Quote: from wetwilly1169 at 12:21 am on Nov. 19, 2008

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You should talk to him about it.

 He is probably afraid to, tho honestly even with the pill i still use a condom. Its just a worry free luxury.

 Just ask him if maybe you can help him orgasm some other way, maybe some oral or something.

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I was going to bring up the condom thing, hell I was even going to bring condoms, but the ones I have will be too small.

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He might not understand birth control fully, so it might scare him. You could try talking to him about how much he knows about the pill and see if you can make him feel better by giving him the facts and what not. Of course, don't draw it out, but just help him understand enough.