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My boyfriend dosen't cum when we have sex.  |
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 Replies: 23 — Last Post Nov. 19, 2008 4:31am by Chiefette
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( misssmadejavuu )
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Quote: from imakethetest66 at 12:26 am on Nov. 19, 2008
 Quote: from misssmadejavuu at 3:23 am on Nov. 19, 2008
Quote: from wetwilly1169 at 12:21 am on Nov. 19, 2008
You should talk to him about it. He is probably afraid to, tho honestly even with the pill i still use a condom. Its just a worry free luxury. Just ask him if maybe you can help him orgasm some other way, maybe some oral or something. 
I was going to bring up the condom thing, hell I was even going to bring condoms, but the ones I have will be too small.
He might not understand birth control fully, so it might scare him. You could try talking to him about how much he knows about the pill and see if you can make him feel better by giving him the facts and what not. Of course, don't draw it out, but just help him understand enough.
Yeah, I was also thinking maybe he thinks I just told him I'm on the pill.
But he's seen me take it before, so he knows I take it.
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I wanna scream" I Love You" from the top of my lungs,
But I'm afraid that someone else will hear me.
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imakethetest66
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Quote: from misssmadejavuu at 3:27 am on Nov. 19, 2008
Quote: from imakethetest66 at 12:26 am on Nov. 19, 2008
Quote: from misssmadejavuu at 3:23 am on Nov. 19, 2008
Quote: from wetwilly1169 at 12:21 am on Nov. 19, 2008
You should talk to him about it. He is probably afraid to, tho honestly even with the pill i still use a condom. Its just a worry free luxury. Just ask him if maybe you can help him orgasm some other way, maybe some oral or something.
I was going to bring up the condom thing, hell I was even going to bring condoms, but the ones I have will be too small.
He might not understand birth control fully, so it might scare him. You could try talking to him about how much he knows about the pill and see if you can make him feel better by giving him the facts and what not. Of course, don't draw it out, but just help him understand enough.
Yeah, I was also thinking maybe he thinks I just told him I'm on the pill.
But he's seen me take it before, so he knows I take it.
Hmm. Is he kind of a shy guy? Maybe he's the type of guy that doesn't like other people seeing him have an orgasm, because it makes him feel awkward or stupid. I would try talking to him about the situation and see what he tells you.
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( misssmadejavuu )
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Quote: from imakethetest66 at 12:30 am on Nov. 19, 2008
Quote: from misssmadejavuu at 3:27 am on Nov. 19, 2008
Quote: from imakethetest66 at 12:26 am on Nov. 19, 2008
Quote: from misssmadejavuu at 3:23 am on Nov. 19, 2008
Quote: from wetwilly1169 at 12:21 am on Nov. 19, 2008
You should talk to him about it. He is probably afraid to, tho honestly even with the pill i still use a condom. Its just a worry free luxury. Just ask him if maybe you can help him orgasm some other way, maybe some oral or something.
I was going to bring up the condom thing, hell I was even going to bring condoms, but the ones I have will be too small.
He might not understand birth control fully, so it might scare him. You could try talking to him about how much he knows about the pill and see if you can make him feel better by giving him the facts and what not. Of course, don't draw it out, but just help him understand enough.
Yeah, I was also thinking maybe he thinks I just told him I'm on the pill.
But he's seen me take it before, so he knows I take it.
Hmm. Is he kind of a shy guy? Maybe he's the type of guy that doesn't like other people seeing him have an orgasm, because it makes him feel awkward or stupid. I would try talking to him about the situation and see what he tells you.
Well the other day when we were talking on AIM, he asked me if I had any fetishes and I told him, he didn't tell me if he had any, but he told me is was playing it safe because he didn't want to scare me away. So maybe he is shy about it, but I don't like it when my guy doesn't cum from having sex, it makes me feel like I'm not doing a good job.
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I wanna scream" I Love You" from the top of my lungs,
But I'm afraid that someone else will hear me.
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lucky015
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Ask him, Before or as u get into it wouldnt be a bad idea, Ask him if he would like to and tell him that if he would like to then you would like him to do it...
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imakethetest66
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Quote: from misssmadejavuu at 3:33 am on Nov. 19, 2008
Quote: from imakethetest66 at 12:30 am on Nov. 19, 2008
Quote: from misssmadejavuu at 3:27 am on Nov. 19, 2008
Quote: from imakethetest66 at 12:26 am on Nov. 19, 2008
Quote: from misssmadejavuu at 3:23 am on Nov. 19, 2008
Quote: from wetwilly1169 at 12:21 am on Nov. 19, 2008
You should talk to him about it. He is probably afraid to, tho honestly even with the pill i still use a condom. Its just a worry free luxury. Just ask him if maybe you can help him orgasm some other way, maybe some oral or something.
I was going to bring up the condom thing, hell I was even going to bring condoms, but the ones I have will be too small.
He might not understand birth control fully, so it might scare him. You could try talking to him about how much he knows about the pill and see if you can make him feel better by giving him the facts and what not. Of course, don't draw it out, but just help him understand enough.
Yeah, I was also thinking maybe he thinks I just told him I'm on the pill.
But he's seen me take it before, so he knows I take it.
Hmm. Is he kind of a shy guy? Maybe he's the type of guy that doesn't like other people seeing him have an orgasm, because it makes him feel awkward or stupid. I would try talking to him about the situation and see what he tells you.
Well the other day when we were talking on AIM, he asked me if I had any fetishes and I told him, he didn't tell me if he had any, but he told me is was playing it safe because he didn't want to scare me away. So maybe he is shy about it, but I don't like it when my guy doesn't cum from having sex, it makes me feel like I'm not doing a good job.
Let him know that it bothers you and it's something you want. He's having sex with you, so it shouldn't break anything special. ha ha You know what I mean? Seriously, you probably have heard this a lot of times, but communication is the key to a golden relationship. He's your man, so don't be scared to talk about certain things with him, and it would stop you from the many thoughts of what it could possibly be.
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Have him stick his dick in your ass to finish up and cum, no babies that way, and it's sexy ass hell to get ass fucked.
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Chiefette
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Sounds like he really isn't comfortable of the idea of no condom. If you are comfortable enough with him to be sleeping with him, you should be comfortable enough with him to talk about this.
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