So, my grandmother died yesterday and i am really depressed... It was so sudden, she went to the ER on sunday morning and by sunday night she was fine, Monday gone... How do i deal with this... i was so close to her..?
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bornonmars75
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im sorry
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carracer
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Mourn for a while, then get on with life. We can't stop living when someone else dies. It sucks I know, but the world keeps turning. You just have to honor her in your heart and memory and thats it really.
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PrincesSita
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Aw..i dont even want to think about my grandma dying ='[ just hope that she is in a better place and at peace!
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tyler3120695
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ask an adult for help. idk. my gma didnt die so i couldnt tell you by exprience. im very sorry. im very close to my gma too. it must be really hard :(
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glowinthedark
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mourning will bring closure. you'll find peace after a while. just realize what's happenned... ily!
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t3nn1simfs
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My boyfriend of 2yrs/bestfriend of 12yrs. died of cancer about 8 months ago, and my grandmother is slowly dying of a heart condition... I'm not saying I know how you feel, but if you ever need to talk just pm me...
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LoveKay
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I'm so sorry to hear about your loss. I can only imagine. Losing my grandfather was one of the hardest things I've ever gone through; I experienced so much regret, hate, shame, sadness, fear. I still fear the next day I may lose someone. But we will never deal with it as well if we don't accept the fact that everyone has their day, and hopefully they are in a better place now. It will one day be okay again. Promise.
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