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Skyler72 rawrr
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If he was dumb enough to get drunk and hook up with some chick, he sure as hell doesn't deserve her. But, she doesn't deserve getting hurt either, yet it was his fault. You did the right thing, skipper.
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By a show of hands who else in here is faking?
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hottie15
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umm well my boyfriend (current) cheated on me when he got drunk but with 3 diffrent girls and i was hurt for but 3 weeks but i heard it from everyone in school so then when he was gonna tell me i already knew and i was hurt so idk but he told me he was gonna tell me the nite of the day i found out but people can't stay out of our bussiness but we talked bout it cuz we have a open relationship and we are still together next month will be a year so yes he should deffenatly tell her and just cuz it worked out for me doesn't mean it will for her and yes he dosen't deserve her at all but u need to talk to her after he does to be a good friend but just tell her if she wasn't to talk u will be there for her cuz other wise it will get worse trust me
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Im in Love with a guy who don't love me back im invisable to him now...
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8:13 pm on Nov. 18, 2008 | Joined: Oct. 2008 | Days Active: 36
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warrior chick
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idk, what to say,
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LoveKay
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Well, now you're in a tough situation because I'm sure you want to tell your friend but know that it's best her boyfriend tells her first. And the latter is correct... for now. If they are both Christian, he shouldn't have been out and getting drunk to the point of losing his mind and fidelity. However, if he did, he needs to confront his girlfriend and tell her immediately. It's very important that he does. It shows more "trust" if he tells her rather than if he hides it, and even if you don't tell her, she will someday find out. And she will also find out that you knew, and did not tell her, causing her to probably get mad at you for keeping it from her. So tell your friend's boyfriend that he needs to tell her, and do so soon. Tell him if he doesn't, then you will have to because it's your duty as her best friend. He must have enough respect for her to let her decide whether she wants to be with him. If he truly "loves" her, then he will do it. Just because he cheated on her, doesn't mean she will dump him. The decision will be left up to her. However, he may not be a complete jackass because at least he confronted you about his mistake, to see what he should do, to let it off his chest. Obviously, he is having a hard time living with his actions. And he will for a long time until he tells his girlfriend the truth. It's the right thing to do. Post edited at 9:59 pm on Nov. 18, 2008 by LoveKay
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Meeko
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Don't tell her, it will only cause pain.
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10:00 pm on Nov. 18, 2008 | Joined: Sep. 2008 | Days Active: 79
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