The urethral is the hole you pee from - it's very tiny, so you won't really be able to see it. And the vagina... well, you can feel it with your fingers, and easily find it by placing a mirror in front of you, etc.
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Rest in peace Christopher De La Cruz[-Bixler-Zavala-Rodriguez-Lopez]
March 25, 1992 - August 4, 2009