Just explain it to her. She should understand, she may not like it, but it's not her choice, it's yours.
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My mom cried like a baby when my brother told her. Eventually, if she loves you enough she'll understand why you did it. She wont like it, but she'll support you.
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Quote: from SavannahNoel at 10:21 pm on Nov. 18, 2008
Hey, it's not her life. It's yours. Don't say ''fine I'll stay, and I wont join the navy'' just because she wants you to. Do what YOU want to do.
Depends...sometimes you have to make compromises in a relationship?
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i know what would cheer her up, join the Army... jk I was in a similar predicament . you could tell her that your doing it to better your self, as well as open up better options for your self down the road and give back to your country and once she see's (in a few weeks or so) how happy it makes you she will be happy too. PS GOOD LUCK
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THOSE were the hardest 15 minutes of your life?
Whoa, just wait till real life gets started...
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Quote: from SavannahNoel at 10:21 pm on Nov. 18, 2008
Hey, it's not her life. It's yours. Don't say ''fine I'll stay, and I wont join the navy'' just because she wants you to. Do what YOU want to do.
Depends...sometimes you have to make compromises in a relationship?
and the compromise is that she will deal with whatever feelings she might have so he can continue his career
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not go???
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try to explain to her and talk more about your feelings.
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follow your heart not your head she cant control your life though, but if its going to ruin your relationship and you want it to go somewhere with her
then sometimes you need to make sacrifices( such as not joining)
but if its something you truely want to do..and your willing to risk a relationship on it..then u gotta do it
but theres no way really to make her happy, unless you dont go.
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Hey, it's not her life. It's yours. Don't say ''fine I'll stay, and I wont join the navy'' just because she wants you to. Do what YOU want to do.
