Im starting to think that showing male or female for anon might be a great idea, And also i would like to point out that its not the similarities that you like in a person, Altho it is possible that they can attract you together in the first place, it becomes the actual person that you like...
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I would suspect your ego is a huge turnoff to him. Most guys are repulsed by girls that believe they are better and perfect in all respects. You could be the most beautiful girl in the world but if your self love was overwhelming you would be a turnoff.
You need a guy that you can control and will put up with your b.s.
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I would suspect your ego is a huge turnoff to him. Most guys are repulsed by girls that believe they are better and perfect in all respects. You could be the most beautiful girl in the world but if your self love was overwhelming you would be a turnoff.
You need a guy that you can control and will put up with your b.s.
Exactly... You SOUND like a whiny little bitch who's not getting what she wants, to tell the truth...
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Quote: from dreamweaver at 1:45 am on Nov. 19, 2008
Quote: from dreamweaver at 7:48 pm on Nov. 18, 2008
Maybe he's not into guys...?
HEY, YOU CHEATED.
Huh?
How'd you know the OP is a guy?
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Because he sees something in her that apparently you don't. Besides, it's not a contest. If he likes her for who she is, then good for them. I think what you should do is not dwell on being jealous and bitter, and just move on and find some other guy, preferably one who is available.
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Quote: from Anonymous at 4:37 pm on Nov. 18, 2008
i like a guy who likes another girl. i don't get it. i'm attractive, smart and successful, if i say so myself lol. last year, i was the news editor of the school paper and i won an award for being the best editor at the paper. this year, i'm the editor-in-chief. i've also been told i'm fun and interesting, even by him!
the guy i like is very similar. he goes to the same college and was also the news editor for the paper and then the editor-in-chief. he's actually the one who hired me to be the news editor! anyway, he's also cute.
the girl he likes wrote for the school paper for 2 years. she was the vice-president of the model united nations club at our school and she's in a sorority. she's very prissy looking and if you saw her you'd think she was one of those "ohmigod, totally!" girls.
why can't he see we're a perfect match?
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Quote: from Anonymous at 4:37 pm on Nov. 18, 2008
i like a guy who likes another girl. i don't get it. i'm attractive, smart and successful, if i say so myself lol. last year, i was the news editor of the school paper and i won an award for being the best editor at the paper. this year, i'm the editor-in-chief. i've also been told i'm fun and interesting, even by him!
the guy i like is very similar. he goes to the same college and was also the news editor for the paper and then the editor-in-chief. he's actually the one who hired me to be the news editor! anyway, he's also cute.
the girl he likes wrote for the school paper for 2 years. she was the vice-president of the model united nations club at our school and she's in a sorority. she's very prissy looking and if you saw her you'd think she was one of those "ohmigod, totally!" girls.
why can't he see we're a perfect match?
------- Don't fall for someone unless they're willing to catch you.
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Maybe you have to accept that he doesn't have it in for you. I like a girl who already has a boyfriend. I told her how i felt and now we're just good friends. I'm doing the best i can to forget those feelings of mine for her even though it's hard.
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