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Web Resources: Teen Pregnancy Facts, Abortion Facts
USA Youth Crisis Hotline: 1-800-448-4663
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( Lady Catastrophic )
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I just found out I am pregnant yesterday. It is horrible, I just got on birth control this month... I guess I was one month too soon eh? Well anyways I am a little over 4 weeks along, I am scared, nervous, and I want to just go to sleep... and never wake up. I just need some advice, from the respectable teen mothers on this site. Call me a whore and you will be reported, and anyways try not to be such an asshole right now, I already have the whole world crashing onto my shoulders. I don't know how to tell my mom.
I want to abort it, but I don't think I could live with myself afterwards. Help me, please.  Post edited at 11:48 pm on Nov. 17, 2008 by Lady Catastrophic
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The head while I'm driving, I'm driving
Soft lips are open, knuckles are pale
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iKnowUwantME
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how old are you? seriously, not trying to be rude
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lucid dreams19
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well your gonna have to deal with it and just face up to it
or abort it
ur choice
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I am the eggman
they are the eggmen
I am the walrus
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maceyface
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abort it. i've seen you around. not mature enough.
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too many legs under the table
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11:53 pm on Nov. 17, 2008 | Joined: Aug. 2006 | Days Active: 629
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misssmadejavuu
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I'm not a teen mother but.
I know you are only about 16, I think.
I know I could never live with myself if I had an abortion, I also know I would not be able to have the child and then give it up.
You have to think about what is best for you right now, and what would be best for the child. It is a hard decision to make but it is one you will have to make. A lot of girls get pregnant when they are young, and have the child and raise it just fine, a lot of girls get pregnant when they are young and have an abortion and go on with life, some regret it. Some have children and give them up for adoption and never look back.
I have been in this situation before, luckily I miscarried and never had to make the decision.
If you decide to have this child would you have help from your boyfriend, his family, your family, and friends.
You are not the only one responsible for brining the child up, maybe your mom will be mad, but she will get over it. I hope I helped even a little bit, I know this is shocking news to you, but everything will work out in the end, it always does, you will be able to make it work, no matter what you decide to do.
Edit:
Are you positive you are pregnant?
If you aren't 100% positive I wouldn't tell anyone until you are.
Post edited at 11:56 pm on Nov. 17, 2008 by misssmadejavuu
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kaylalynn2008
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i'm not a teen mom, but if you want my input, you can pm me!
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how old are you? seriously, not trying to be rude
