I am 18, he is 9 or 10, I don't know and don't care. Anyway, he is always coming over to my apartment because my mother is always having men she meets on the internet over to her house. So she forces the little brat on me. When he is over here, he thinks he has the right to do whatever he wants. He called his friend just a minute ago even after I told him "No the pizza is almost here". Now I'm here on the computer while him and his friend are being loud and annoying. He does this all the time, he doesn't listen and basically if you look up the word brat in a dictionary you will see his picture.
See, my mother doesn't make him listen, he gets away with whatever he wants and nothing happens. She calls him a little angel when in reality he is a little devil. I got called by his school because I watch him every weekend and they wanted me to come pick him up because apparently he thought it would be funny to stuff toilet paper in all the toilets and flood the bathrooms.
As for my mother, I HATE her, she told me to get out of the house the day I turned 18. Luckily my grandmother knew someone who owned apartments so I have one rent free. Anyway, the reason she told me to get out? She invites men she meets over the internet to her house to have sex. I know this because my brother walked in on her and a man once. She has been married 4 times, once to my dad, once to a loser who she divorced 1 week after marriage, and twice to my brothers dad. If you looked up the word whore in the dictionary you would see her picture. She also thinks that I have the 'obligation" of paying her $100 a week because of all the care she gave me as a kid.
Well let me tell you this, she verbally abused me as a child, she hit me, and she locked me out of the house a few times. She would hit me whenever I got something below an A on my report card. She verbally abused me anytime I made a small error on anything. I was tempted to call child services myself, but I never could bring myself to do it.
Oh well, I'm out of her life now and I want out of my brother's life because of how stressed he makes me. Anyone have any tips for me on how to deal with this?