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( lorenextdoor )
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I met a man a few months ago (on the internet). He is from Egypt, 22, a college student. I am 17, from the U.S., finishing high school this year. I love this man more than anything. We have been engaged for a couple months, but my parents don't approve. We are both muslim, and do not believe in delaying marriages. I'm sure that I want to marry this man - I trust him more than anyone. We did plan to marry after I graduated, but I do not want to wait another half year. I plan to go in December, over christmas break, WITHOUT my parents knowing. I really don't want to come back either. My fiance is still in college for another year, and I want to finish high school in Egypt. Is this possible. Also, I have money saved in banks, but under my mothers name also. How can I protect this money if she tries to take it after I leave? Also, how can I make sure my parents don't know that I bought the plane ticket? What other precautions should I take? I'm sure of my decision, so don't dissuade me. Please just give me advice. This is the most important thing in the world to me. Thank you for any helpful comments.
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Assalamu alaikum wa rahmatullah.
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Ndskewll
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This isn't going to work. Sorry.
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Make this last, take it slow
We've got it all figured out for now
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5:54 pm on Nov. 20, 2008 | Joined: June 2006 | Days Active: 375
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HeartofJuyoMk2
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my advice would be to honor the wishes of your parents, as religion usually dictates. Whether or not you are ready to be married, it's impractical.
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mycuteFIEND
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Have you met this man you are in love with?
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The Last Magister
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Just wait to finish your HS education, if he wants to rush it that much, doesn't it make you wonder?
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I'm not wasted potential, you're just not worth my time.
The impossibility of perfection will tear me apart.
There's only so much you can do.
The Broken.
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catoman
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1 thing are u over 18?
if not you can't legally marry
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5:54 pm on Nov. 20, 2008 | Joined: Sep. 2008 | Days Active: 53
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neotreo
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it's possible, but you have to be emancipated.
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For You Are Crunchy and Good with Ketchup
/b/ does it for the lulz!!!
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( lorenextdoor )
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I can in Egypt, marry. He is willing to wait for me, but I don't want to.
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Assalamu alaikum wa rahmatullah.
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lingerie gurl
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Think about this, if he can't get a girl his own age, what would that mean?
He has to go after girls much more younger, not as mature, and inexperienced in life. You are very impressionable. You go, you may never come back. You are probably making the biggest mistake in your life.
He can hurt you, possibly kill you, and no one will help you. You don't know this man! You only know what he wants you to know. If he was a reasonable man, he would have talked to your parents and figured out a way to go about the "relationship" in a approved way.
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BTW:
He doesn't look 22 he looks 40 and fucking ugly. Post edited at 5:57 pm on Nov. 20, 2008 by lingerie gurl
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fedoragirl
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Ohhhh no. Don't you watch Dr. Phil?! This sounds like a terrible plan. If he really wants you to be with him, he will come to you. You should not under any circumstance put yourself in a situation as a minor where you can be that vulnerable. I know what it's like to make very close connections via the internet but you truly have no way of really knowing this person. Think about how patient you have to be when you make friends in person! It takes a lifetime to get to know someone.
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Mikeyp123 = BFFL. Raven = dollface ::: MiaBia is my IRL BFF.
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k14nk
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I can see this being on 20/20 if this actualy pulls threw. I highley suggest yyou dont pull threw. I'm just watching for your safety.
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91308 R.I.P D.J.P[Caughtmecutting is my LW wife:]
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superfreak
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it is possable but you have to go through the emancipation procedings first or you cant buy your own plane ticket as far a sthe bank goes close the account and take the money with you so she cant take it then marry hom but finish high school and let him finish collage dont ruch it
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when you are cought in the storm
call upon the lord and he will save you
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raza301
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bad idea at least wait till high school and get him to come over where you are and meet your parents
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