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Best friend breakup..
Replies: 14Last Post Nov. 16, 2008 9:05pm by kendall716
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I just sort of... broke up with my best friend since second grade.


And we've never really fought before..

You see she lives in Florida now, and I can never get ahold of her. I hadn't been able to for two months. The night my mother almost died, (Last wednesday) I tried to contact her and couldn't My boyfriend called her and she picked up. THEN she called me.


So I just told her that I think our friendship is over because I can't depend on her.

She's my sister... I've lived with her.. she's lived with me... we've always been there for each other until recently...

Its devastating..

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Don't fuck it up. Make up with her. Losing your best friend isn't... it is never worth it.

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Quote: from Skyler72 at 8:46 pm on Nov. 16, 2008

Don't fuck it up. Make up with her. Losing your best friend isn't... it is never worth it.


She's not much of a best friend if she never answers or calls.

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umm im sorry i did that a few years ago

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have you even tried calling her and talking about it?

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Quote: from lightskaylaction at 8:48 pm on Nov. 16, 2008

have you even tried calling her and talking about it?


I think you'er missing the point. She doesn't answer.

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my best friend and i from pre-k went through the same thing when she moved. after we ended our friendship we finally realized the mistakes we both made and we were able to work out our problems. i do not know if you will be able to fix your friendship but either way i wish you the best. if you do want to talk to her, write her a letter instead of trying to call her.

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wow. Rough business. In all fairness moving is hard. Give her time to work it out is my advice. you are really upset right now, and I understand why...but its got to be hard for her too.

I am so sorry lovey. I am also sorry I missed your call. I had my phone on silent, and didnt see it till the next morning.

<333 you.

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Sometimes you just have to do what you have to do.. and i'd be pissed that she answered my boyfriends call and not mine.. maybe it was a good thing you can't live in the past forever.. you'll find a new best friends I "brokeup" with mine about four years ago and found an amazing friend who stepped up and took the vacant spot

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That's seriously fucked up that she answered for him and not you.

I'm really sorry about that, I have a friend who I've known for a long time now and things aren't going very well. It's hard to realize that the person you've cared about for so long really only cares about themselves.

I understand why you'd think it was best to end the friendship, I'm considering doing so with someone myself. Over time you'll feel better about it all. If you ever want to talk let me know.

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Quote: from barnabas at 8:51 pm on Nov. 16, 2008

wow. Rough business. In all fairness moving is hard. Give her time to work it out is my advice. you are really upset right now, and I understand why...but its got to be hard for her too.

I am so sorry lovey. I am also sorry I missed your call. I had my phone on silent, and didnt see it till the next morning.  

<333 you.



I know how moving is though. I moved  1,000 miles away for a year and still managed to call her every day.

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Quote: from kendall716 at 10:52 pm on Nov. 16, 2008

Quote: from barnabas at 8:51 pm on Nov. 16, 2008

wow. Rough business. In all fairness moving is hard. Give her time to work it out is my advice. you are really upset right now, and I understand why...but its got to be hard for her too.  

 I am so sorry lovey. I am also sorry I missed your call. I had my phone on silent, and didnt see it till the next morning.

 <333 you.


 
I know how moving is though. I moved 1,000 miles away for a year and still managed to call her every day.


I know...and I am not saying you dont need to re-evaluate the situation, just saying, realize that everyone adjusts differently.

You have had a crap Nov. Can it be december for you yet?

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I really hope so.. sorry about the late night call btw, it was when my mom was in the icu and as aforementioned; I couldn't get ahold of my best friend and I needed to vent..

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Quote: from kendall716 at 10:59 pm on Nov. 16, 2008

I really hope so.. sorry about the late night call btw, it was when my mom was in the icu and as aforementioned; I couldn't get ahold of my best friend and I needed to vent..

I am just pissed at myself for missing it.

some consolation i am. Call me Kendall! and then when you do..I dont even know until the next day :(


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dont worry about it doll, it was late anyhow

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