so my bmi is 19.95...i just calculated that... i suffered from an eating disorder last year and this year i was almost fully recovered... that was till a girl i know started losing weight and i started this new obessesion that i had to be skinnier than her so right now i've fallen back to where i was... so im average in weight yes i know, but i havent weighed my self in 3 months, but i have gone down 1 1/2 inches this past week... what should i do... its stressing me... why cant i be perfect?
2:25 am on Nov. 17, 2008
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mcodeath
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Smallest/skinniest does not equal perfection. There is such a thing as TOO skinny and its NOT attractive.
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blufindr
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No-one can be perfect.
Set yourself a challenge to not say anything bad about yourself, in terms of weight, height or looks.
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Thanantos
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well you are Hun pm me please i will talk to you about my friends experience
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M J
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so what are you doing to lose weight? Purging? Not eating? Exercising? Your bmi doesn't seem worrysome at all. I really wouldn't fret about losing weight if you aren't doing it in a detrimental way to your body.
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Thanantos
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so what are you doing to lose weight? Purging? Not eating? Exercising? Your bmi doesn't seem worrysome at all. I really wouldn't fret about losing weight if you aren't doing it in a detrimental way to your body.
actually its kinda a vicious cycle of eat a little over exercise and then when my mom forces me to eat i just puke it all up...
2:33 am on Nov. 17, 2008
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dramaqueenxoxo
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Just try to remember why you stopped and look at her in other ways--- what is better about you than her? e.g. hair, skin, smarts.
I've been there, I recently relapsed into mia because a friend has started to lose weight (she was almost my size)... I'm not going to tell you that you are better than her, or you are thin enough (because I know, you never will be) but I can remind you to remember why you want to recover.
PM me if you need to talk
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avoid problems by sleeping it works for me sometimes
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