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Help me out girls...
Her way of trying not to hurt me?
Replies: 9 — Last Post Dec. 22, 2008 8:41am by helloworld
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Okay, i love this girl but we're not together because of religion.

She's a christian and she said that her first criteria for a boyfriend must be a christian. im not.

She's really nice and a pro-christian. I really love her. I've told her that i love her, and all she said was thank you.

I asked her if we're possible once, she replied "do you know? impossible means i m possible, so anything is possible =)"

This really sucks. I always get jealous when she's talking to other guys, really closely. She's oblivious that i always get jealous.

My question - Is the reason why she didnt say no because she doesnt want to hurt me? Im really stressed out thinking about this relationship. Its been 2 years now and I've always try to be there for her. Please help me out.

4:42 am on Dec. 22, 2008 | Joined: Dec. 2008 | Days Active: 3
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I told a guy once that I couldnt date him because of religion... but I lied.

SO maybe shes lying. :D

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If it's been two years and nothing's happened, my  thoughts are that nothing will ever happen.

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Quote: from Faded Beauty Queen at 11:44 pm on Dec. 22, 2008
If it's been two years and nothing's happened, my thoughts are that nothing will ever happen.
My first thoughts too.

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Must I prove to you how good we are together?
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dump her or she'll convert you

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im afraid so, i just hope that she can just tell me how she feels. should i just ask her?
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im thinking of converting too, but its not that easy isnt it?
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you should ask her how she feels about u together.. 2 years of waiting r enough dont u think? and f religion is really the problem then this one is tough
unless u convert
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psychoticboy


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dude DO NOT CONVERT because you think you're in love.
let me tell you something honestly. the girl is playing with you
the only reason she brought up the christian thing is because alot of people wouldn't change their religion and knowing that shes trying to be smart and in a nice way she said "no"
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Forget about her. If you keep focusing on her like that you will NEVER get her. You probably think she's the greatest girl on earth. Guess what? She isn't. Take her off that pedestal. There are plenty of better ones out there. She's nothing special.

Its been 2 years now and I've always try to be there for her.

That's your first mistake. Stop being there for her. Make her think you don't really care anymore (easiest way is to actually stop caring, but at least pretend if anything).

im thinking of converting too, but its not that easy isnt it?

That's major supplication. Absolutely do not do this. She will NOT respect you for that and it will not help you get her.

im afraid so, i just hope that she can just tell me how she feels. should i just ask her?

No. You've been waiting for f*cking TWO YEARS and you don't know how she feels? She is CLEARLY NOT INTERESTED. Don't debase yourself by asking her anything of the sort.

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