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Replies: 24Last Post Dec. 20, 2008 10:47am by Ska Ninja
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OK well i'm 14, Male and i'm currently in a serious relationship with my girlfriend and i love her very much.

Before I started going out with her i never had that much attention from girls but now i'm getting a lot of girls sayin they fancy me n stuff.

Well a few nights ago i was talking to a few friends (girls) online and one of them (my gf's best friend) says that she loves me. Well she came over my house the next day and we carried on as if she never told me that. The before she left she brought up the subject so i told her that i can't dump my girlfriend for her cus i no it will break her heart and i love her very much. Well she broke down into tears and i comforted her and we talked for ages. Wen she did finally leave she started to cry again cus she sed that she loved me so much and i was huring her a lot. After that i felt really bad. Now here's the weird thing:
A few days after another girl (who doesn't no my girlfriend or her best m8) told me she loves me and she cries every night before she goes to bed because i'm with someone else. Again i felt really bad.
I'm stuck here because i am hurting two people which i wud never ever want to hurt in my life and i feel really bad about it. But i don't know how i can stop them hurting. I don't want to dump my current gf because i love her a lot n she loves me and she has told me if i ever dumped her she would kill herself... and i no she would!

Absolutely any advice is greatly appreciated here  :)  and thanks in advance.. DJ Ozzie

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6:45 pm on Dec. 18, 2008 | Joined: Oct. 2007 | Days Active: 350
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ovbiously if you're talking about it you didnt do it and your dad knew you wouldn't...kinda dramatic maybe if you took things more chill he'd like you more..?

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6:45 pm on Dec. 18, 2008 | Joined: Dec. 2008 | Days Active: 56
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Wow that must really suck. well i wouldnt dump the girlfriend u have so whatever u do DONT dump her. now u said ur girlfriends best friend told u that she loved you? well shes not being very fair to her best friend i mean. if my best friend was going out with someone i liked i wouldnt go and tell the guy i loved him. well i say just stay with the girl you've got and as for the other too girls if they like u as much as they say they do then they can wait.
hope it helps and good luck
melis

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6:46 pm on Dec. 18, 2008 | Joined: Dec. 2008 | Days Active: 56
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i don't agree with you that they want to end their own lives. there are much more efficient ways.

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3:15 am on Dec. 19, 2008 | Joined: Dec. 2008 | Days Active: 56
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Best thing to do if you ''Love'' A Girl is Just to talk to her...Just be ready for w/e comes out or for w/e happends.
Good Luck


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3:17 am on Dec. 19, 2008 | Joined: Dec. 2008 | Days Active: 56
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carracer


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Well heres my expert advice.. LoL actually I'm no expert   :p  But I would talk to him. Find out what he's after. Ask him why all of a sudden he wants to do things with you. You know just talk to him about all that stuff.. Theres no harm in talking.  :p And if you believe he's changed {Because most people do change} Then maybe he's worth one more shot. And if everything goes wrong again.. Then you just got to understand it wasnt meant to be and maybe you guys just aren't right for each other.. Well there was my advice haha hope that helped somewhat!

xOx Much Love xOx

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11:32 am on Dec. 19, 2008 | Joined: Dec. 2007 | Days Active: 286
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Hes a jerk...u made him feel bad so he wanted to make u feel the same way....some guys just suck...take it from me every girl is pretty in their own way..and i truly believe that..If this girl has a pretty face and this one has pretty hair and this one has a pretty body...they al have something u know....I'm pretty sure u look great u just are too hard on yourself and u let people get to u easily..My sister was just like u and I dedicated this song to her and she was so happy...Its called "Exceptional" By jojo..listen to it and tell yourself u are beautiful and guys just wanna bring us down..and thats the truth..cuz one day i feel pretty and the next I wish I had this different and that different..Just think about it if u live your live wishing u will get no where.. Boost your confidence and show people who u really are...if they don't like it then don't look and if they looking anyway then they like it...good luck girl and give that dude your ass to kiss....

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12:02 pm on Dec. 19, 2008 | Joined: Dec. 2008 | Days Active: 56
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carracer


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Hes 18 and wants to lose his virginity to a 15 year old?

Tell your friend to ask the witnesses if it really happened.

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12:06 pm on Dec. 19, 2008 | Joined: Dec. 2007 | Days Active: 286
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I talked to him. He said it was a joke from his sister and no to worry. He said he was gonna delete but he got kicked off. So I deleted it. But every thing is ok. Thanks for the advice.

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4:30 pm on Dec. 19, 2008 | Joined: Dec. 2008 | Days Active: 56
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Hmm.. Well I would stay with you're g/f for sure! If you love her that much and you don't want to break up with her than don't! Those 2 girls just have to suffer! Tell them just because they love you that doesn't mean you can love them, and that you're in love with someone else {Although you can word that nicer, LoL} I've been the girl who likes her best friends boyfriend but I've never 'loved' him. But that must have been about 2 years ago!  Anyways.. Just talk to them and tell them how you feel about the situation! And tell them not to be so hurt and that they will find sumone thats right for them. Because it seems like you found the right girl for you.

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