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( purplelove202 )
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I am in love with him. He is not in love with me. We are "movie buddies" (we go to the movies together), f-buddies, dining-out buddies.... Pretty much - if he's not too tired and not too busy - we are together doing something. He knows I love him. He acknowledges it, and is fine with it. He just wants me to try letting go of the feelings/emotions and just being his friend. I CAN be just his f-buddy friend, but every now and then I get emotional about him. I don't want to leave his side. I worry about him. We don't kiss, rarely hug, and avoid eye contact during sex. We do this to diminish the feelings I have for him during that physically expressive time... What would you do? *You love him / her
*You are addicted to his / her body / sexual activity
*They are addicted to having sex with you too
*You can talk about anything and enjoy the same hobbies, tv shows, movies, etc. BUT the person who's not in love would rather you TRY to leave your feelings behind. What do I do??
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spaceykayce
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Ah. This is why fuck buddies are a very bad idea...
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kslice24
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stop talking to him all together.
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beautiful. dirty. rich.
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10:55 pm on Dec. 18, 2008 | Joined: April 2007 | Days Active: 236
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IWantYou1991
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Hey, if it's not gonna work out, time to walk baby, It's easier said than done.
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Niick
Laboriosus exitus domus
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Has he explained why he feels this way? Maybe he doesnt want to complicate it?
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bigproud90
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sweetie , there is two things to do .... One deal with it ....
OR Two ,,,,, Walk
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tAyLoR -N- aNdReW 8/23/06 . my love for him as never left .
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blufindr
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You leave him.
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Must I prove to you how good we are together?
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( purplelove202 )
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What if I'm ok with just friendship? I'm only ok with this because I love him THAT much. I would rather settle for frienship - than not have him at all...
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Neodymie
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Just stop having sex with him. Just do everything else.
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Here force failed my high fantasy; but my
desire and will were moved already-like
a wheel revolving uniformly-by
the love that moves the sun and the other stars.
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10:59 pm on Dec. 18, 2008 | Joined: July 2008 | Days Active: 317
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( purplelove202 )
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Good advice everyone - especially Neodymie (being also my mechanical adviser)... I've tried stopping the sex, but I WANT it from HIM so much. I find no one else even remotely attractive.
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cherryD
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It's not going to work out and you know it. If you find it hard to get over him, then distance yourself from him.
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Neodymie
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Quote: from purplelove202 at 11:01 pm on Dec. 18, 2008
 Good advice everyone - especially Neodymie (being also my mechanical adviser)... I've tried stopping the sex, but I WANT it from HIM so much. I find no one else even remotely attractive.
Well the way I see it playing out is you stop the sex and keep him as a friend or you keep having sex and it will all implode eventually and you lose sex and a friend. Just my two cents though.
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Here force failed my high fantasy; but my
desire and will were moved already-like
a wheel revolving uniformly-by
the love that moves the sun and the other stars.
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11:06 pm on Dec. 18, 2008 | Joined: July 2008 | Days Active: 317
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