We are "movie buddies" (we go to the movies together), f-buddies, dining-out buddies....

Pretty much - if he's not too tired and not too busy - we are together doing something.

He knows I love him.  He acknowledges it, and is fine with it.  He just wants me to try letting go of the feelings/emotions and just being his friend.

I CAN be just his f-buddy friend, but every now and then I get emotional about him.  I don't want to leave his side.  I worry about him.  

We don't kiss, rarely hug, and avoid eye contact during sex.

We do this to diminish the feelings I have for him during that physically expressive time...

What would you do?  

*You love him / her
*You are addicted to his / her body / sexual activity
*They are addicted to having sex with you too
*You can talk about anything and enjoy the same hobbies, tv shows, movies, etc.

BUT the person who's not in love would rather you TRY to leave your feelings behind.

What do I do??

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Good advice everyone - especially Neodymie (being also my mechanical adviser)... I've tried stopping the sex, but I WANT it from HIM so much. I find no one else even remotely attractive.

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Should I really stop the sex to keep the friendship AND HOW???  :-O

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We stopped having sex due to him wanting to date someone - but he dumped her really soon after - just to continue our sexual relationship. He says no one else can do / will do what I do.

Should I really stop the sex to keep the friendship AND HOW??? :-O

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I don't know. I've honestly never been in that situation. That's just how I see it going down. You say it's kind of awkward already likely it will only get worse until you hate each other.

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" I don't mean to sound bitter, cold, or cruel,
but I am, so that's how it comes out. " - Bill Hicks

He could have just said that to comfort me FOR NOW.

UGH!

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