I used to always be shy and stuff, but I have opened up a lot more.  I feel more confident in myself.  I used to feel that no guy liked me, but a few showed interest and asked me on a date....so I tried, but nothing ever really went further.

And now I'm hitting a dry spot.  I dont have a lot of extra time to date because I am quite busy with my schoolwork and my RA job.  What would you say is a good idea for a girl to do in regards to dating?  Is it ok for the girl to ask a guy on a date?  And where are good places to meet people?

Just some advice for how to feel confident enough when talking to a guy...and how to know if a guy is being genuine or interested?

as for your other issue -- you don't have to ask him out as soon as you see someone cute. rather, if you see him in the dining hall, ask if you can join the table. it's neutral territory and there's no pressure to perform. next, if you happen to see him walking on campus, stop by and have a few-minute chat. see? there's a lot you can do before officially asking a guy on a date. and by the time you reach that phase, who knows? maybe you won't even be interested anymore. but chances are, you'll be less shy.

good luck!