Its been a rough 6 months for me. I had moved back home while my boyfriend stayed at school in Alabama (I'm live in Minnesota). At first we talked like 5-6 times a day. And text all day. But for the past few months, we've probably talked only 10 times. he barely return my calls or just call me period. I love him so much but even though I'm going to be back down there in a week or so. I feel that he gave up on our relationship. Then last night he called me when I was sleep and left the most beautiful voice message that I began to cry. My feelings have me very confuse on what to think. I want him to tell me whats going on but I don't know how to ask. Some how I wish that we can work this out.
------- "To argue with a fool proves there are two."
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You just have to try your hardest. Just be open and honest with him
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bigdutchman
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tell him this.
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sykexl
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Long distance relationships just don't work. For every one that succeeds there's a million that don't.
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Long distance relationships just don't work. For every one that succeeds there's a million that don't.
Yeah was told that by all my friends that it wasn't going to work out. But i guess i wanted to take that chance.
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Mikayla007
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Talk to him about, dont' dricectly blame him otherwise instant agruement
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Long distance relationship proves if the relationship is strong and will last forever. If you're not able to hold it you 2 shouldn't be together. However, some people don't know how to handle long distance relationships. You both need to be willing to invest time communicating like through the internet or a phone call. If you're not able to do that simple thing, I doubt he's/she's the right one for you.
Post edited at 5:51 pm on Dec. 23, 2008 by JustinHit