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xoAllixs0n
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You shouldn't still be friends with her anyway.
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There is beauty inside a woman who believes in herself;
who knows she is capable of anything that she puts her mind to.
who knows she can fall, pick herself up, and move on.
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hopeguz3
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don't be friends with her
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10:13 am on Dec. 1, 2008 | Joined: May 2008 | Days Active: 126
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Micus
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Quote: from xoallixs0n at 1:17 pm on Dec. 1, 2008
 It really depends on how serious the relationship was and who broke up with who. There's more or less and unwritten code that the best friend cant be friends with the ex if things ended badly, which is this case, they did. I know I wouldn't like my best friend being friends with my ex of 3 years after what he put me through. And because she's my best friend, she's not. 
I mean of course if the person is truly a bad seed and it would be against the best interests of the friendship to pursue any relationship with the ex after the relationship ends poorly... but overall I see very few instances when the friendship of two people should be sacrificed for the sake of another friendship.
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xoAllixs0n
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Quote: from FuzzyBearJr at 1:19 pm on Dec. 1, 2008
Quote: from xoallixs0n at 1:17 pm on Dec. 1, 2008
Quote: from Micus at 1:13 pm on Dec. 1, 2008
Quote: from xoallixs0n at 1:10 pm on Dec. 1, 2008
You shouldn't still be friends with her anyway.
Why not, exactly? Can't he be friends with them on an individual basis? Just because his friend doesn't like her anymore doesn't mean he isn't allowed to be friends with her.
It really depends on how serious the relationship was and who broke up with who. There's more or less and unwritten code that the best friend cant be friends with the ex if things ended badly, which is this case, they did. I know I wouldn't like my best friend being friends with my ex of 3 years after what he put me through. And because she's my best friend, she's not.
wat if he pat was planning on dumping her
but it just happend that she did the dumping before he did ?
"Relationships come and go, but friendships stay forever"
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who knows she can fall, pick herself up, and move on.
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NightChick666
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so he was planning to dump me but was such a pussy that the waited for me too then got all pissed and "I'm going to get my revenge"
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amiee
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Maybe it has something to do with you not only having something to do with them breaking up in the first place, but you pursuing something with her or when they did break up. At least, that's how it might appear to him. You could try explaining that you're only interested in her as a friend and why on earth you were involved in their break-up.
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