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What goes on inside the rapists' mind?
Replies: 16 — Last Post Dec. 4, 2008 9:03am by amiee
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I was raped a few years ago and still haven't gotten over it. My therapist has suggested that I stat to write about it. I#m a good writer, I enjoy writing. so she asked me to write down my feelings, try to tell it like a novel, ask myself questions, and get some answers.

One of my primary questions is, "What was he thinking?"

Does anyone have any ideas?

Edit: also, what makes them so aggressive?

I was raped by my then boyfriend. and he had always been violent-

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Everlongx


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well i think if you knew then you'd be a rapist.
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how old were u

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It's the thrill of dominating someone completely, for most rapists, that motivates them to do what they do. Most of them are sadists, power-freaks etc. Quite frequently, rapists are often only that way because they were abused themselves.
Good luck.
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Usually people who do that kind of shit have been abused themselves, so they have some kind of impulse to have power over others or to be abusive. From what I've noticed it seems like most are desperate and very angry and don't really know how to respect another human being.

You probably shouldn't be asking what he was thinking, the question you should ask is probably whether he was thinking at all.



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i never understood y someone would rape a child. what do they have that you want. the only thing i could think of is their still pure. but they havent matured yet....what pleasure do you get!!

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iv been raped in a really bad way before and its not something ull forget about/get over u just need to try ur hardest to move on thats why i told nobody

so i wouldnt get the "are u okay?" look or the lets everyone be fake/nice to her coz of what happend

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im glad youre trying to understand this though because the best way to be able to get past at least some of the feelings is to understand why it happened

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I think it's a control thing... Make out they're better than you stuff like that..

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