I think my boyfriend is TOO nice. He tries to do absolutely everything for me and cater to my every little need. I know he is just trying to be a good boyfriend but he seems to be trying too hard and hes doing too much. I appreciate it...but...It comes off as a bit suffocating and clingy at times. What should I do?
1:15 am on Dec. 2, 2008
LiveWire Humor
cupcake25
Executive
just tell him, its better you till him now before you start disliking him
------- An emptiness words cannot define..
1:17 am on Dec. 2, 2008 | Joined: Aug. 2008 | Days Active: 137 Join to learn more about cupcake25Australia | BisexualFemale | Posts: 1,454 | Points: 3,114
lostrealist
Dairy Product Addict
be thankful regardless of what he do to you. At least, he showed how much you mean to him.
------- love hurts but sometimes it's a good hurt.
1:20 am on Dec. 2, 2008 | Joined: Nov. 2008 | Days Active: 11 Join to learn more about JessieLoveCalifornia, United States | StraightFemale | Posts: 134 | Points: 244
Randomaster
Soothsayer Patron
just tell him that he doesn't have to try hard to impress you or that tell him to be himself :) he might get a little embarrassed but he will be happy that you feel comfortable
1:20 am on Dec. 2, 2008 | Joined: Nov. 2008 | Days Active: 241 Join to learn more about RandomasterAustralia | LesbianMale | Posts: 5,014 | Points: 11,192
whoisabs
Dairy Product Addict
lol one of my friends does this and it is lol how he can't figure out why girls box him up into the friend zone
you need to explain to him that there are times when a guy needs to say no woman, i've tried to explain this to my friend a few times but he just can't seem to understand the concept
1:24 am on Dec. 2, 2008 | Joined: Nov. 2006 | Days Active: 838 Join to learn more about whoisabsTexas, United States | Male | Posts: 21,603 | Points: 29,385
1:26 am on Dec. 2, 2008 | Joined: June 2004 | Days Active: 810 Join to learn more about CaliKevinCalifornia, United States | Label FreeMale | Posts: 12,431 | Points: 19,817
1:29 am on Dec. 2, 2008 | Joined: Nov. 2008 | Days Active: 20 Join to learn more about CosbynessIowa, United States | StraightMale | Posts: 163 | Points: 366
ang42490424
Visionary
Tell him to stop doing that all the time. Spoiling you won't do much good. When he can't do that, you will want him to and . . . we . . . you might break-up because he can't continue.
------- Where there is great love, there are always wishes.
1:30 am on Dec. 2, 2008 | Joined: Aug. 2007 | Days Active: 372 Join to learn more about ang42490424Texas, United States | StraightFemale | Posts: 4,208 | Points: 8,063
1:31 am on Dec. 2, 2008 | Joined: June 2004 | Days Active: 810 Join to learn more about CaliKevinCalifornia, United States | Label FreeMale | Posts: 12,431 | Points: 19,817