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do you think this is messed up???
Replies: 10 — Last Post Dec. 4, 2008 8:26pm by tell me again
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so my gf doesnt live in my city anymore ...because shes in the military....however...she comes in town often...
and her parents house....is about 25 miles away from where i live...
she can't drive to come get me ...(because she got a dui a while back....so theres issues w/ her insurance that she has always been telling me shes gonna fix...)....
so everynight that shes in town i end up driving to her place...
(my parents dont approve of me dating her...and wouldnt have her over to my place...so we always hangout there)...
but do you think she should find a way to actually fix her thing so she can come get me......or at least give me gas money...or am i just being selfish?????
8:13 pm on Dec. 4, 2008
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No she is being an ass. Tell her to get it fixed or pay for your trouble at least.

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heatherfuckinglynn


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do you love her?
if you guys are in love or whatever then you're being selfish, then again, she shouldn't be so needy...

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i do love her...
but it always seems like im doing everything for her....
and shes not doing much for me.
8:16 pm on Dec. 4, 2008
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not trying to be rude but i thinks thats a little selfish...but i get where your comin from

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and every time it seems like i ask her a favor its always like....i can't ...
8:18 pm on Dec. 4, 2008
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R U guys 4 real? He isn't being selfish he is being her bitch. If she really wants to see him they should at least meet half way (not literally).

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like i mean i know she cares about me a lot...
but its like as soon as things dont go her way she gets pissed off.
8:20 pm on Dec. 4, 2008
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I don't think it's messed up. She should contribute in the relationship in other ways... but in this situation, YOU'RE the one driving there. I mean, it's pretty stingy to divide up the money and "pay you back" for what you paid to visit her. I don't think she even realises that you see an imbalance.

If I was in her position it wouldn't occur to me to offer and pay gas money. It sounds cold and acquaintance-like to me

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Quote: from asia lover at 8:18 pm on Dec. 4, 2008
R U guys 4 real? He isn't being selfish he is being her bitch. If she really wants to see him they should at least meet half way (not literally).

This. (minus the poor grammar)

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Quote: from makingxmexsmile at 8:23 pm on Dec. 4, 2008
Quote: from asia lover at 8:18 pm on Dec. 4, 2008
R U guys 4 real? He isn't being selfish he is being her bitch. If she really wants to see him they should at least meet half way (not literally).

This. (minus the poor grammar)

Yeah they should meet half way. But separating the $$$ from the act of driving there is... stingy. OP I can understand where you're coming from though, if she never helps you out (or pays for other things).

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