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they're making me sound like a slut
Replies: 16Last Post Dec. 3, 2008 2:30pm by Raiku
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i started being friends with this guy at high school a few weeks ago, we hang out most days at school but whenever we see his friends they always joke that we have some kind of sexual relationship. i mean yeah it doesnt bother me THAT much but its getting annoying, i mean i hardly know them or him for that matter. and i have a boyfriend and its just getting really awkward and annoying. think they'll just get bored with it after a while an give up? what would make them stop?

12:00 pm on Dec. 3, 2008
GoodFairy13


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Yeah. Alot of boys are like that. They'll get bored of it if you show them it doesn't bother you.

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or just tell them what really going on u have a bf...

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Quote: from SuperSarah at 12:06 pm on Dec. 3, 2008

or just tell them what really going on u have a bf...

they know i have a boyfriend... another problem is my friend's started sorta playing along with it, i mean he's obviously joking but its making it worse

12:09 pm on Dec. 3, 2008
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Call him out on it, that's what I did.  I had a guy friend tell all of his little swimmer friends that I "wanted him so bad I tore his underwear to get to him."  True, no one believed him because they knew him and they knew me, but I still called him out on it, called him and made him explain it to me (which he acted stupid about it), and ended our friendship.

I don't mess around with stupid shit like that.

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yeah if you tell them to stop or get annoyed theyll just think theyre right and keep going, so dont let them see it bothers you
good luck with the jerks

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they're guys. it's what they do. it's funny, so get over it and stop complaining lol xx

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Quote: from Natsy at 12:14 pm on Dec. 3, 2008

they're guys. it's what they do. it's funny, so get over it and stop complaining lol xx

more or less saying I'm cheating on my boyfriend and am slutty... you have a poor sense of humor.


12:20 pm on Dec. 3, 2008
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Quote: from Anonymous at 8:20 pm on Dec. 3, 2008

Quote: from Natsy at 12:14 pm on Dec. 3, 2008

they're guys. it's what they do. it's funny, so get over it and stop complaining lol xx

more or less saying I'm cheating on my boyfriend and am slutty... you have a poor sense of humor.


well you're not, right? they JEST ok?
and no, i have a great sense of humour, YOU are just too uptight and paranoid to find things directed at you funny...

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Quote: from Natsy at 12:22 pm on Dec. 3, 2008

Quote: from Anonymous at 8:20 pm on Dec. 3, 2008

Quote: from Natsy at 12:14 pm on Dec. 3, 2008

they're guys. it's what they do. it's funny, so get over it and stop complaining lol xx
 

 more or less saying I'm cheating on my boyfriend and am slutty... you have a poor sense of humor.


well you're not, right? they JEST ok?
and no, i have a great sense of humour, YOU are just too uptight and paranoid to find things directed at you funny...


I'm not uptight, i wouldn't say its uptight to dislike practically strangers joking about you being a slut and cheating on your boyfriend, if it was my close friends or even friends i wouldn't care. you have a very immature sense of humor.


12:28 pm on Dec. 3, 2008
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Maybe he's not a friend.

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Quote: from Natsy at 2:22 pm on Dec. 3, 2008

Quote: from Anonymous at 8:20 pm on Dec. 3, 2008

Quote: from Natsy at 12:14 pm on Dec. 3, 2008

they're guys. it's what they do. it's funny, so get over it and stop complaining lol xx
 

 more or less saying I'm cheating on my boyfriend and am slutty... you have a poor sense of humor.


well you're not, right? they JEST ok?
and no, i have a great sense of humour, YOU are just too uptight and paranoid to find things directed at you funny...


I think the issue here is her boyfriend is getting annoyed by it, and not necessarily that he really thinks she's cheating, but it's one of those things where you hear people say stuff like that a lot and it starts getting to you, even though better judgement says they're wrong.  It doesn't make her uptight in the least, it just means she prefers not to be the butt of such perverse "jokes."

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Raiku


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mayabe its because you are a slut

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Quote: from Raiku at 12:41 pm on Dec. 3, 2008

mayabe its because you are a slut

explain how this is true?
I'm 17, had 2 boyfriends, never kissed or done anything with anyone but those 2 guys. I've been with my current boyfriend for almost 2 years.


1:01 pm on Dec. 3, 2008
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Quote: from Anonymous at 4:01 pm on Dec. 3, 2008

Quote: from Raiku at 12:41 pm on Dec. 3, 2008

mayabe its because you are a slut

explain how this is true?
I'm 17, had 2 boyfriends, never kissed or done anything with anyone but those 2 guys. I've been with my current boyfriend for almost 2 years.


because theres no woman that isnt a slut

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