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I Need Some Outside Input PLEASE HELP :(
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Replies: 19 — Last Post Dec. 4, 2008 10:04am by Descartes
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Soothsayer
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nvm

Post edited at 11:23 am on July 4, 2009 by Descartes

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You can't...

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Soothsayer
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theres got to be SOMETHING i can do :(

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dnd


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the truth... talk it out with her and try to understand how she feels.. maybe she'll come around.

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eat a twinkie and chill out
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BrokenBelief


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Tell her she's being completely fucking ridiculous.  The simple matter is that she is.  Tell her to try and imagine it the other way around.  If she was in a serious relationship and had sex, does she believe that it would change the person she is, or should have any effect on the person she's with at present?

If she can't get over the past, a healthy relationship is never going to work.

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SuperSarah


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tell her the past is the past and it meant nothing
and how the hell did u guys wait a yr??? Are you guys like 13? lol

she has to lose it sometimes she should stop being a baby really

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keilani


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ok whenever u can sit somewhere and talk to her just be honest let her know that there is nothing to worry about and that she can trust you

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bluebutterfly4ever


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you cant fix it...prove to her that she is the only one that you love that no matter if u were with someone else in the past she is the only one that you want to be with...

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Soothsayer
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No were not 13, im 19 and shes 18. We just didnt have sex, everything but. And ive tried all of that. Ive talked to her. She knows how much i love her. She knows how much she means to me. I tried saying well then we just wont have sex.(cuz i love her with all my heart and i could live without it) she just doesnt think she can get over it. UGH. i mean she knows the other girl doesnt mean anything to me anymore. we dont even talk. She's like convinced it wont be special since ive already done it :/

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rozenmaiden101


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She'll come back after a couple months. Just keep poppin' up in her life every now and again.
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keilani


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Quote: from rudecrudeswimingdud at 11:54 am on Dec. 3, 2008
No were not 13, im 19 and shes 18. We just didnt have sex, everything but. And ive tried all of that. Ive talked to her. She knows how much i love her. She knows how much she means to me. I tried saying well then we just wont have sex.(cuz i love her with all my heart and i could live without it) she just doesnt think she can get over it. UGH. i mean she knows the other girl doesnt mean anything to me anymore. we dont even talk. She's like convinced it wont be special since ive already done it :/
just talk to her

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Soothsayer
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ive tried talking to her, ive been pouring my heart and soul out to her for like 2 weeks now

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southernstripper


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dont be an overdramatic bitch.

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Soothsayer
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haha ok asshole

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charolette2323


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you're obviously both in love... don't let her end it because of this
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