Wow, I'm really sorry you have to go through this. But he is your dad, he's always going to love you and care for you and want to be there the best way he knows how. He more than anything didnt do this to hurt you or anything like that. But, it is going to take time for things to be anywhere close to normal. Now he is a guy and guys do make mistakes. it doesnt mean he doesnt love or care for either you or you mom any less. He just chose this maybe because something was missing or he wasn't getting what he was looking for.
But, also dont judge him for his mistake, he is still your father and he still loves you either way you look at it. If he didnt i seriously doubt he would come up to you crying because of what he did or how he's feeling. So take pride in that because it could have been a different experience.
But, like said he loves you and cares about you and you never know your mother could have been doing the exact same thing to him, but you never know what goes on behind closed doors. He's still your dad and he loves you just remember that.
I hope i helped PM me at anytime im here to talk or answer any questions you may have.
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