To fix things, my dad called her and . . . well, all hell broke loose. She tells me not to answer my dad anymore. But my dad calls to see how my sisters and I are.

I listen to her, but I also want to listen to my dad. And supposedly, you have to listen to both. How can you choose?

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Where there is great love, there are always wishes.

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i think that if you truly want to talk to your dad you should talk to your ma and tell her that you want to talk to your dad and she shouldnt tell you to not talk to him just because she got issues with him.

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She won't listen. Everytime I bring it up, she just gets mad and avoids me. She says she is over my dad and has forgiven him. But from all of this, I know she hasn't. I tell her its not right for me to do this, that he is still my father and that I should still talk to him. But she still brings up the same things which causes me to avoid him, which I later change my mind again.

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Where there is great love, there are always wishes.