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I've discovered the secret!
Replies: 17 — Last Post Dec. 1, 2008 9:41pm by kendall716
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Of relationships.


In the past I let my hormones take over which made me think about things to much which made Alex and I get into fights because things would build up.


What's the remedy to this?

Being careless.  (Not careless about the relationship.. but not caring about the petty little annoyances)
Honestly, it's not a bad thing. Especially since we're going to be living together.

If something annoys me, I just tell him to leave me alone for a few minutes while I do something I enjoy (ie paint my nails, take a bubble bath, watch my favorite show) and when I get done he's sweet and I get over my petty annoyance.


It's beautiful and I really feel no pent up anger.  


I feel like I just discovered the key to life.


And what is that??

Quit being such a damn girl!

Post edited at 9:31 pm on Dec. 1, 2008 by kendall716

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Haha, I already do that, I leave when people piss me off. Or I kick them out.

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haha. nice. What a handy thing to figure out. Giving people space is super important.

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maybe you two just aren't that compatible
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sounds like me. i get angry, yell at someone then walk away and im over it again in 2 minutes.
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That is amazing. I discovered this myself recently. It feels good doesn't it? Do things for you, ALWAYS. My uncle put it best when he said this:

"Imagine that your heart is a jug of water. You are constantly pouring out this love for others... but if you don't take time to refill your jug, you're going to be empty pretty fast."

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lmao that's great.. i'll have to try that.

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The key to a successful relationship is not care about the relationship? Not much a relationship then in my opinion...

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Quote: from barnabas at 9:26 pm on Dec. 1, 2008
haha. nice. What a handy thing to figure out. Giving people space is super important.


And you know what Carie, guys have known this all along. They've been keeping it from us! It's beautiful and I seriously feel liberated. I mean I still care about him but I don't feel the need to be petulant and argue.. Since i do care, I don't want to fight.

And since I've figured this out.. we haven't

It's great!

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Quote: from Aimforthehead at 9:29 pm on Dec. 1, 2008
The key to a successful relationship is not care about the relationship? Not much a relationship then in my opinion...


That's not what I meant.  

I meant to not care about the petty little things. As a girl, I've over-reacted in the past. I don't plan on doing that anymore.

Of course I still care abotu him, I always will. Even if I do get mad.

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Quote: from kendall716 at 9:29 pm on Dec. 1, 2008
Since i do care, I don't want to fight.

And since I've figured this out.. we haven't

It's great!

Don't count your blessings just yet? When did this all start? lol

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Quote: from perfume cowboy at 9:26 pm on Dec. 1, 2008
maybe you two just aren't that compatible

You're just pessimistic.

I love him, we are absolutely compatible.

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Quote: from holodeck87 at 9:31 pm on Dec. 1, 2008
Quote: from kendall716 at 9:29 pm on Dec. 1, 2008
Since i do care, I don't want to fight.  

 And since I've figured this out.. we haven't  

 It's great!

Don't count your blessings just yet? When did this all start? lol


A while back. We've been dating two years. long enough to have problems and fix them.

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Quote: from kendall716 at 9:30 pm on Dec. 1, 2008
Quote: from Aimforthehead at 9:29 pm on Dec. 1, 2008
The key to a successful relationship is not care about the relationship? Not much a relationship then in my opinion...

 
That's not what I meant.    

 

I meant to not care about the petty little things. As a girl, I've over-reacted in the past. I don't plan on doing that anymore.

Of course I still care abotu him, I always will. Even if I do get mad.


Well, I think it's good to care about small things but more to care about the person, that way you are for sure to make things better. But then again words are the cause of most fights(they usually have no meaning anyways, we just perceive them so), and yes I got that from that song "Enjoy the Silence".

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Its true. Guys do know. I have a book you should read. PMing you now.

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