I will adopt though

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Most people would rather be certain they're miserable, than risk being happy.

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go to the sperm bank

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Quote: from MXfreak at 9:38 pm on Dec. 1, 2008

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then get a kitten!

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Quote: from kmksrhdgaf420 at 9:39 pm on Dec. 1, 2008

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go get some dick in you then

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Quote: from rachrach at 9:39 pm on Dec. 1, 2008

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How old are you?

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Yeah... ever since then, I've thought twice about the idea. At least until I feel that I'm old enough. You know, no one can really make that decision but you, though. If you feel that you're ready, go right ahead. But I would suggest making sure that you're financially, mentally (not meant to offend by any means), and all points in between stable before you decide to take that leap!

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It's a lot more than most people think. Sure babies are cute, and loving, and it's nice to take care of them. But when it comes to them being sick, and cranky for no reason, and doing things they shouldn't, and all of that 24/7, it get's "not so fun."

Don't rush it. You have your whole life to be a parent.

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well-behaved women rarely make history.♥

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then get a kitten!

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What she said...

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You dont tug on supermans cape,you dont spit in the wind, you don't pull
the mask off an old lone ranger and you don't mess around w Jim

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I actually can relate to this. I used to feel the same way about being a dad, believe it or not. It does drive you up the wall... crazy almost. Then I saw a news report. It was about a school up in Massachusetts that was... a decent sized school, but it had something like, 17 pregnant students in the High School. They interviewed one of the pregnant girls, and she started talking about how she had always wanted a baby, and this and that. Then she got really upset and started on how the choice to have a baby ruined her life, and how she'd never be able to live a normal life.  

Yeah... ever since then, I've thought twice about the idea. At least until I feel that I'm old enough. You know, no one can really make that decision but you, though. If you feel that you're ready, go right ahead. But I would suggest making sure that you're financially, mentally (not meant to offend by any means), and all points in between stable before you decide to take that leap!

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Quote: from seemenow1990 at 9:45 pm on Dec. 1, 2008

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Its your biological clock and hormones. I felt the same way two years ago. I still want a baby, but i know being educated will be more beneficial to my kids.

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Quote: from crimeinstereo at 9:46 pm on Dec. 1, 2008

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Having a child really isn't all fun and games.

It's a lot more than most people think. Sure babies are cute, and loving, and it's nice to take care of them. But when it comes to them being sick, and cranky for no reason, and doing things they shouldn't, and all of that 24/7, it get's "not so fun."

Don't rush it. You have your whole life to be a parent.

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I know what it takes to raise a child.  Whether they are sick and crying or they are happy and laughing, I want them.

I am not rushing it.  I may have my whole life to be a parent, but there really is no reason that I shouldn't start now or in the near future.

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If you come across a car accident after midnight, and everyone is sober;
Keep looking, you are missing someone.

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I actually can relate to this. I used to feel the same way about being a dad, believe it or not. It does drive you up the wall... crazy almost. Then I saw a news report. It was about a school up in Massachusetts that was... a decent sized school, but it had something like, 17 pregnant students in the High School. They interviewed one of the pregnant girls, and she started talking about how she had always wanted a baby, and this and that. Then she got really upset and started on how the choice to have a baby ruined her life, and how she'd never be able to live a normal life.  

Yeah... ever since then, I've thought twice about the idea. At least until I feel that I'm old enough. You know, no one can really make that decision but you, though. If you feel that you're ready, go right ahead. But I would suggest making sure that you're financially, mentally (not meant to offend by any means), and all points in between stable before you decide to take that leap!

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Well said.

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Quote: from Malachite Morning at 9:44 pm on Dec. 1, 2008

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I actually can relate to this. I used to feel the same way about being a dad, believe it or not. It does drive you up the wall... crazy almost. Then I saw a news report. It was about a school up in Massachusetts that was... a decent sized school, but it had something like, 17 pregnant students in the High School. They interviewed one of the pregnant girls, and she started talking about how she had always wanted a baby, and this and that. Then she got really upset and started on how the choice to have a baby ruined her life, and how she'd never be able to live a normal life.

 Yeah... ever since then, I've thought twice about the idea. At least until I feel that I'm old enough. You know, no one can really make that decision but you, though. If you feel that you're ready, go right ahead. But I would suggest making sure that you're financially, mentally (not meant to offend by any means), and all points in between stable before you decide to take that leap!

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Having a child wouldn't ruin my life, I am not worried about that at all. I know that I am financially, mentally and physically ready, but I don't know if now is the perfect time.

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Well, do you feel that you are stable in general? Do you feel that at this point in your life you could provide adequate housing, caretakers for when you have to go to school/work/etc., baby clothes/essentials...?

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