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You tell them both you did not decide to get a divorce. They did. You can't be with both of them. They made the choice, so stop making you feel bad about it.

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GREAT ADVICE!!!!  Thanks

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Yeah Im Bi. Whats it to you?

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Quote: from sykexl at 4:47 pm on Dec. 23, 2008

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Tell him to get the fuck over it.

 That and I fail to see how one has to do with the other. Why would you have to sleep over? Even if you did, why couldn't you leave early to go back with your mom to spend the rest of the morning and day?

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I moved in with my mom in January and this is my first christmas here.

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And what does that have to do with what I said? Again, how does spending Christmas eve with your father impose on spending the the next day with your mom? Unless they live more then 2 or 3 hours apart I fail to see how it would be a problem to do both.

I'll take your lack of an answer as a sign that you simply don't want to spend time with your dad, which is fine, but no reason to avoid it.

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Quote: from Cutiepootie at 4:48 pm on Dec. 23, 2008

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Quote: from sykexl at 4:47 pm on Dec. 23, 2008

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Tell him to get the fuck over it.    

  That and I fail to see how one has to do with the other. Why would you have to sleep over? Even if you did, why couldn't you leave early to go back with your mom to spend the rest of the morning and day?

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 I moved in with my mom in January and this is my first christmas here.

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And what does that have to do with what I said? Again, how does spending Christmas eve with your father impose on spending the the next day with your mom? Unless they live more then 2 or 3 hours apart I fail to see how it would be a problem to do both.

I'll take your lack of an answer as a sign that you simply don't want to spend time with your dad, which is fine, but no reason to avoid it.

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My mom wants me to spenmd christmas eve night here and my dad wants me to too.

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Yeah Im Bi. Whats it to you?

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Quote: from BackPorch at 4:48 pm on Dec. 23, 2008

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You tell them both you did not decide to get a divorce. They did. You can't be with both of them. They made the choice, so stop making you feel bad about it.

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GREAT ADVICE!!!! Thanks

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I have been in your exact position. =)

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=)Stephanie

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Quote: from sykexl at 4:50 pm on Dec. 23, 2008

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Quote: from Cutiepootie at 4:48 pm on Dec. 23, 2008

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Quote: from sykexl at 4:47 pm on Dec. 23, 2008

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Tell him to get the fuck over it.

  That and I fail to see how one has to do with the other. Why would you have to sleep over? Even if you did, why couldn't you leave early to go back with your mom to spend the rest of the morning and day?

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  I moved in with my mom in January and this is my first christmas here.

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 And what does that have to do with what I said? Again, how does spending Christmas eve with your father impose on spending the the next day with your mom? Unless they live more then 2 or 3 hours apart I fail to see how it would be a problem to do both.  

 I'll take your lack of an answer as a sign that you simply don't want to spend time with your dad, which is fine, but no reason to avoid it.

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My mom wants me to spenmd christmas eve night here and my dad wants me to too.

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Is it really too hard for you to spend the eve with the father and the next morning/day with your mom? What the fuck kind of ungrateful brat are you?

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Mom > Dad.

Always

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Agreed.

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You're always lurking there.
You never leave.
As soon as forever is through, I'll be over you.
My Life Would Suck Without You *BFF*

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Quote: from Cutiepootie at 4:51 pm on Dec. 23, 2008

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Quote: from sykexl at 4:50 pm on Dec. 23, 2008

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Quote: from Cutiepootie at 4:48 pm on Dec. 23, 2008

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Quote: from sykexl at 4:47 pm on Dec. 23, 2008

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Tell him to get the fuck over it.      

   That and I fail to see how one has to do with the other. Why would you have to sleep over? Even if you did, why couldn't you leave early to go back with your mom to spend the rest of the morning and day?

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  I moved in with my mom in January and this is my first christmas here.

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  And what does that have to do with what I said? Again, how does spending Christmas eve with your father impose on spending the the next day with your mom? Unless they live more then 2 or 3 hours apart I fail to see how it would be a problem to do both.

  I'll take your lack of an answer as a sign that you simply don't want to spend time with your dad, which is fine, but no reason to avoid it.

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 My mom wants me to spenmd christmas eve night here and my dad wants me to too.

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And you said you want to spend christmas morning with your mom.

Is it really too hard for you to spend the eve with the father and the next morning/day with your mom? What the fuck kind of ungrateful brat are you?

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I SAID I WANT TO SPEND CHRISTMAS NIGHT WIHT MY MOM BUT MY DAD WANTS ME TO SPEND IT WITH HHIM.

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Yeah Im Bi. Whats it to you?

the last one by backporch is the only decent reply.

put yourself in your dads shoes, him and your mum obviously have issues and thats probably alot harder on him than he makes it out to be to you, so ease up on the guy a bit.

if anything your mother is just as much to blame for you being in this position, having a kid she and your dad should put their differences aside and work out a solution for your sake.

you should talk to them both about how you feel, as lame as that may sound it will make you feel better, and they should both be mature enough to put their differences to the side for once to work something out to benifit you.