Please help: Who is wrong in this situation. -- LiveWire Teen Forums

This is going to be a bit of a read, so I'll post a summary of it at the bottom.
So there is a friend of mine, I've known her literally all my life, her mom and my mom are best friends. We were supposed to hang out last night (the night before my birthday)
My other friend says that hes having a birthday party, and that I have to come (we have the same birthday party). So I ask if I can bring this girl because I already had plans with her, he says sure. (Note that no one at the party had met this girl before)
Anyway we're at the party, my other friend (not mentioned yet) who usually gets more obnoxious as he drinks gets also physically abusive. Now I've known him to be jokingly abusive towards us, but not towards people he's never even met, so I told her that he can be very obnoxious, but didn't warn her about that. At about 3 in the morning, he starts hitting the girl I brought with his cane (he broke his ankle a few weeks ago) and throwing her off of the couch because he was trying to force her to drink more and she said no.
She ends up going upstairs crying because he was being a complete dick to her, I try to comfort her, she says shes already called a ride and is leaving. (We were originally just going to crash there). Completely pissed off, I get mine and her stuff and tell them all I'm leaving. My friend (the abusive one) comes up and asks me whats wrong, and I told him that because he was being such a dick, she is leaving and I am too.
So on my way home, I get texts from the host, and hes accusing me of a) ruining the party, and b) being at blame for this whole situation. I justify myself by telling him that my abusive friend had NEVER acted like that towards a complete stranger before, yet his response is 'You know him, he acts like that, its all your fucking fault'. He is also accusing me of 'thinking with my dick' because I left because I was pissed off with them. The host is calling me a dick because I made my friend cry when I told him how much he was being a dick to her, and that he should be excused because that's how he acts when he drinks.

Summary: I bring a friend to a birthday party (no one there knows her), she ends up getting abused by one of my friends to the point where she resorts to leaving, pissed off I leave too, the host says its my fault because she is too emotional to be physically abused by complete strangers.

Who is wrong in this situation?

P.S. What a great fucking birthday.

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