Hmm it doesn't make you a jerk. Maybe just a bit sensitive cause it seems like a small deal to me. Then again sometimes when I see gay guys on TV like those Stephen and Chris guys or Richard Simmons I go omfg that's too much lol. I'm kind of gay myself, but I'm not one of those real fruity feminine ones. I'm not saying its a bad thing but sometimes you do have roll your eyes a bit....