I honestly don't think this is anything to worry about. If you find yourself noticing guys more and becoming attracted to them at some point then that's something you can deal with later but, for now, you feel comfortable enough within your sexuality. Don't worry about it, there's absolutely nothing wrong with noticing someone attractive of the same sex. We all do it.

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i think you're the same as me, we see things they'll never see

I asked a few trusted freinds about it. One of them (female) said that she has been atracted to girls before, but she would never go lesbian or bi because thats just not who she is. Two other freinds of mine (both male) said that they have never had that before, and that it is weird.

Post edited at 6:56 pm on Jan. 9, 2009 by Anonymous

Again though, I don't think it's anything to worry about too much. Honestly, a lot of straight people have felt physically attracted the same sex. I'm not just pulling random crap out of the air either - I know this from having been told it by friends many, many times and from even seeing things posted about it on livewire. I mean, who knows what this means? It could have just been a one time thing, utterly random (I have a friend who has had a "girl crush" before and she's engaged to be married to a male and considers herself very straight. She knows that she'd only ever be in a relationship with men but accepted that she's found a few women over the years attractive and has been attracted to them).

I don't know. I suggest that you just see how this progresses and try not to worry about it too much, it'll only stress you out and make you feel pretty shit (by the sounds of it). It could mean anything and it could mean nothing at all. As we grow up our feelings can change and it can be weird and quite often it ends up being absolutely nothing at all. I honestly believe that as we're growing up we all experiment and we're all exposed to loads of different emotions about both the same sex and the opposite sex. Give yourself some time and just see how it goes, y'know? I tend not to worry about labels too much, especially as a teen because our emotions are always changing and we're always experiencing new things. Your friend admitting that she's felt that way too shows you that it's normal and common.

Post edited at 6:48 pm on Jan. 9, 2009 by amiee

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i think you're the same as me, we see things they'll never see

Don't try and find out. Just live your life and see what comes. You don't need a label.

If you overthink it, you'll make conclusions and warp things and nothing will make sense. Trust me, I know from experience. Take it as it comes, don't force it.

I had a crush on a girl, and it turned out that I was bisexual. But my best friend had a crush on a girl and it turned out she was straight. It can go either way.

My point in all of this is that what will be will be: don't try and figure out exactly why. "I don't know who I am, but you know, life is for learning", as Joni Mitchell puts it. Don't spend your time trying to figure it out. You'll grow up and you'll learn it.

Post edited at 10:14 pm on Jan. 9, 2009 by noraa