Okay, so there's this guy that I work with and he's a nice enough guy... as a friend. The problem is, its becoming increasingly more obvious that he likes me. We talk on facebook occasionally, but recently he (in a roundabout way) asked me out on a date. Now I'm really not a horrid person so I didn't really answer the question I just said, "maybe, some time". However he appears to have taken this as a yes as the first thing my boss/friend said to me when I went into work the other day was "I can't believe you agreed to go on a date with him!!".

I had a family event yesterday, a memorial exhibition of all my uncle's paintings (he died in March). I casually mentioned it to this guy, just in passing and now he seems to be making arrangements to go to see it, asking me for guided tours... basically another "date".

Then he found an old picture of me on facebook where I don't look too good, but I'm about 12 so its okay and he's posted it on his facebook page. Now, I can't think of any of my close friends who would do that so it just seems wierd to me that he would.

He hasn't explicitly said he likes me, but its rather obvious and other people at work tell me constantly that he does. Also there is a guy in my life right now who I'm kinda seeing.... But I don't want to hurt the work guy's feelings, so how should I word it if he does bring it up?

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Do I dare
Disturb the universe?
In a minute there is time for decisions and revelations
which a minute will reverse - T.S. Eliot

I would go with the second one though. For now just act as if you are not interested, or keep throwing the word "friend" around.

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