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Concerning my realtionship with my girlfriend
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Alright, first off. I cried last Saturday over a discussion and  
my girlfriend came outside to comfort me. I felt weak and lonely because she wouldn't cry with me. I asked her today why she didn't and her reply was:"I feel weak when I cry, but if you want me to Baby, I'll cry next time." I told her I would not see her weak if she did cry. In my eyes her crying with me would show how much she really cares and loves me. But all she did that night was frown and sniffle.
Next and final problem as of now would be about her friends... A few of her best friends have been feeding her lies saying that I told bad about her behind her back and that I have called her a whore. She is starting to believe them. Also a boy that likes her said I was cheating on her which I am not. Nor have I ever let a negative word about her come out of my mouth. What should I do?

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Tell her the truth, if she's a good girlfriend to you, then she'll believe you. Otherwise, she's not being a good one.

But, you have to realize, she'll be more inclined to listen to her friends over you. Just tell the truth, if you have said something bad about her, tell her straight up.

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If she believes you then its meant to be, don't label crying as a means of showing deep emotion to you, its something that shows deep emotion from within you.

If she can't cry with you its better to know that her physical presence is more than enough comfort because not everyone can cry at times, one must be strong for the other, a relationship is a give and take.


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eh GTFO, stop being a little bitch and crying.

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Um. Just cuz u dont cry doesn't mean you're not feeling nyhting.

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tell ur girlfriend the truth about everything dont let one piece of information go unsaid. if she is as good as you say she is than she'll understand everything but if she aint she'll leave you. just talk with him away from the world and let it just be you two together!!!

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Quote: from Tyler4758 at 7:42 pm on Jan. 12, 2009

A few of her best friends have been feeding her lies saying that I told bad about her behind her back and that I have called her a whore. She is starting to believe them. Also a boy that likes her said I was cheating on her which I am not. Nor have I ever let a negative word about her come out of my mouth. What should I do?

This.

If she knows you have not told her a negetive thing, she will believe you, and not them. It's trust, if she knows you are not like what they say you are, then she won't believe them. But she does, and that is worrying.

My advise is, that you have a long and hard talk about these rumours, and ask if she trusts you, and if she belives them.



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Smoke a joint, listen to some Tupac, get an AK and let those crackers feel fear!

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Quote: from Rtheory at 11:47 am on Jan. 12, 2009

Quote: from Tyler4758 at 7:42 pm on Jan. 12, 2009

A few of her best friends have been feeding her lies saying that I told bad about her behind her back and that I have called her a whore. She is starting to believe them. Also a boy that likes her said I was cheating on her which I am not. Nor have I ever let a negative word about her come out of my mouth. What should I do?

This.  

If she knows you have not told her a negetive thing, she will believe you, and not them. It's trust, if she knows you are not like what they say you are, then she won't believe them. But she does, and that is worrying.  

My advise is, that you have a long and hard talk about these rumours, and ask if she trusts you, and if she belives them.  



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Tell her da truth

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Tell her the truth, if she's a good girlfriend to you, then she'll believe you. Otherwise, she's not being a good one.

But, you have to realize, she'll be more inclined to listen to her friends over you. Just tell the truth, if you have said something bad about her, tell her straight up.
Queen of Hope..she has not said directly that she doesnt trust me but she has said that if its true to admit it. I told her i love her too much to say or do anything like that to her and that its all not true. all she said was alright in an unsure manner


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