im back with my bf after being with another guy who showed me a life that involved traveling outings and just get away holidays. i loved just being able to travel somewhere on a day off and have a great day. now im with my bf who has no money and will struggle to be able to afford train fare to mine (£60) so weekend away and even meal and cinema will be out the question. how can i go back to doing nothing except sit at home with my bf after my ex showed me a world of travel.
8:14 am on Jan. 12, 2009
LiveWire Humor
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get a job and and pay for your own travel?
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steven7
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don't be a spoiled bitch, if you think you love him then it will all be worth it, if you don't love him then way waste the time. but don't sell him short just because he works hard for only a little cuz thats all he can do right now
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money is the dirt of this world ,trust me with this ,all my friends go out with me coz of my money they are like you !! follow your heart not your fun!
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don't be a spoiled bitch, if you think you love him then it will all be worth it, if you don't love him then way waste the time. but don't sell him short just because he works hard for only a little cuz thats all he can do right now
i do love him but i just cant sit at home all day as i get bored. also i dont know how much longer i got until i wanna settle down and have kids and then i cant travel the world like i would like to
8:19 am on Jan. 12, 2009
addictivesoul89
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you'd just have to get used to it. thats what i did. i was used to my ex taking me around to places, showing me things, paying for everything. now with my new bf, he wont let me pay for anything although i feel bad cuz he doesn't make that much so sometimes i sneak things in. and most of the time we just saty home and chill.
so yea, you just get used to it again and just wait for the future. never know what'll happen.
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nik1
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I think when you depend on someone else to provide for you it would make a very boring and obligated life. Self sufficiency is a remarkable thing to possess. You have chosen to put yourself in this position and you can choose to get out of it.
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