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Web Resources: Rape Myths Dispelled, Help & Information about Rape
USA Rape, Abuse and Incest Hotline: 1-800-656-HOPE (1-800-656-4673)
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I went to a part last night at my friend's house. Things were winding down, people were leaving, so a few of us were just hanging out. There was a guy there who I only sort of knew, and he said his other friend was gonna stop by. His other friend turned out to be a guy I had a REALLY rocky relationship with. Like...he was constantly bordering on abusive, but would stop himself just in time so he knew I couldn't really do anything about it, you know? He refused to let me break it off when things first started getting scary, so I started looking around again like I was single and just tried to ignore him as much as I could. What do you know? I must attract HUGE creeps, because the next guy I was interested in tries to rape me at a party, my boyfriend walks in and kicks the guy's ass. He was FURIOUS with me and hit me a little, but I explained to him what happened and for a while we were okay. I never told anyone else. A few months ago, HE breaks up with ME (finally!) and we hadn't spoken since. But he shows up at the party, we're all a little tipsy, and we start playing truth or dare in a small little circle on the floor just because. After a little while someone asked me to tell my deepest darkest secret, which was that I was almost raped. I was planning on making something up, and he speaks over me and goes "I know her darkest secret." I gave him such a death glare, and he continues, "At a party a few months ago, I discovered this secret." I'm starting to freak out thinking that he's going to tell everyone, and he says "Her secret is that she's a whore who likes to blame others for things that are her fault." I reached over and hit him in the face. Twice. Then I just stood up and left. I walked home, I didn't care that it was sleeting, I just wanted to get away from him and I didn't want to talk to anyone. Well yesterday the friend who was friends with him sees me at the store and tells me that after I left, he told everyone how I was cheating on him and he caught me and I tried to blame it on the guy, and I was wicked manipulative our whole relationship, and making up a bunch of bullshit to make me look bad. A few of my friends actually believed him and told him he should press charges because I hit him, and he's considering it. What the hell am I supposed to do?
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darkness253
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wow..
------- I got your back. Hang-loose A***
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Majo
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I don't know if you can press charges but maybe you should get a restraining order.
------- "Under the hardness of her facade a woman's heart is still beating."
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AsTheCitySleeps
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i would try to ignore them. and explain to your friends.
------- "Lead astray the gazers, the razors on your seducing skin."
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meangirl64
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If he sues, cross sue him and tell them HE abused you in your relationship....chances are, they'll believe you over him.....the world is just like that
------- Ballet: men wearing pants so tight, you can tell what religion they are. The professor was on acid, and sometimes, he'd shout, "I'm Lincoln!" And then, there'd be a kid in the back, "I'm Booth!"
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Tasbard
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PRESS CHARGES FOR ABUSE AND RAPE.
------- Hypocrisy means never having to pick between 'right' and 'consistent'.
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D A V I D
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YOU PRESS CHARGES!
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meangirl64
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Oh, and you can also press charges on the other guy for attempted rape....
------- Ballet: men wearing pants so tight, you can tell what religion they are. The professor was on acid, and sometimes, he'd shout, "I'm Lincoln!" And then, there'd be a kid in the back, "I'm Booth!"
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Cunning Stunt
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If he actually presses charges, he'll get luaghed out of the police department.
------- His name is Robert Paulson. Click here if you want to live
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brownee
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That sounds exactly like my ex-brother-in-law! No one will take that fools side, and I think that you should just get away from those people
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danndivision
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press charges
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Bacon
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God, the situations people get themselves in..
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