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Might be pressing charges.
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I went to a part last night at my friend's house. Things were winding down, people were leaving, so a few of us were just hanging out. There was a guy there who I only sort of knew, and he said his other friend was gonna stop by.

His other friend turned out to be a guy I had a REALLY rocky relationship with. Like...he was constantly bordering on abusive, but would stop himself just in time so he knew I couldn't really do anything about it, you know? He refused to let me break it off when things first started getting scary, so I started looking around again like I was single and just tried to ignore him as much as I could.

What do you know? I must attract HUGE creeps, because the next guy I was interested in tries to rape me at a party, my boyfriend walks in and kicks the guy's ass. He was FURIOUS with me and hit me a little, but I explained to him what happened and for a while we were okay. I never told anyone else. A few months ago, HE breaks up with ME (finally!) and we hadn't spoken since.

But he shows up at the party, we're all a little tipsy, and we start playing truth or dare in a small little circle on the floor just because. After a little while someone asked me to tell my deepest darkest secret, which was that I was almost raped. I was planning on making something up, and he speaks over me and goes "I know her darkest secret."

I gave him such a death glare, and he continues, "At a party a few months ago, I discovered this secret."

I'm starting to freak out thinking that he's going to tell everyone, and he says "Her secret is that she's a whore who likes to blame others for things that are her fault."

I reached over and hit him in the face. Twice. Then I just stood up and left. I walked home, I didn't care that it was sleeting, I just wanted to get away from him and I didn't want to talk to anyone.

Well yesterday the friend who was friends with him sees me at the store and tells me that after I left, he told everyone how I was cheating on him and he caught me and I tried to blame it on the guy, and I was wicked manipulative our whole relationship, and making up a bunch of bullshit to make me look bad. A few of my friends actually believed him and told him he should press charges because I hit him, and he's considering it.

What the hell am I supposed to do?


4:14 pm on Jan. 10, 2009
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wow..

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Majo


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I don't know if you can press charges but maybe you should get a restraining order.

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i would try to ignore them. and explain to your friends.

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If he sues, cross sue him and tell them HE abused you in your relationship....chances are, they'll believe you over him.....the world is just like that

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PRESS CHARGES FOR ABUSE AND RAPE.

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Hypocrisy means never having to pick between 'right' and 'consistent'.

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YOU PRESS CHARGES!

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Oceanborn


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Oh, and you can also press charges on the other guy for attempted rape....

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If he actually presses charges, he'll get luaghed out of the police department.

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That sounds exactly like my ex-brother-in-law! No one will take that fools side, and I think that you should just get away from those people

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press charges

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God, the situations people get themselves in..

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he is a dick

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