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is it wrong or not normal to expect these things in a relationship....
Replies: 28Last Post Jan. 15 12:01am by LoveKay
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sammiroo


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Maybe in the beginning of your relationship he would, but eventually things would die down.

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Quote: from My Dreams WILL Wait at 8:16 am on Jan. 14, 2009

Quote: from strandedgirli at 8:12 am on Jan. 14, 2009

I agree. Girls have too high expectations for guys these days, blame Edward Cullen guys
haha...and I still don't see why everybody is crazy about his looks or whatever..ew

it's not his looks that has raised girls expectations of

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No man OR woman in their right mind would be like that!  People need "alone time," "time with their buddies," "time with their hobbies," etc.  Aim for hanging out most days, but not everyday.
All that stuff you said sounds too mushy and lubby dubby.  I hope you don't take what I said the wrong way.

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Quote: from sammiroo at 8:17 am on Jan. 14, 2009

Maybe in the beginning of your relationship he would, but eventually things would die down.


yeah, definetly, or in calii's case he'd turn out to be gay but sooner or later he'll get tired of kissing your ass and figure out you're not worth it.

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My Dreams WILL Wait

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Quote: from strandedgirli at 8:17 am on Jan. 14, 2009

Quote: from My Dreams WILL Wait at 8:16 am on Jan. 14, 2009

Quote: from strandedgirli at 8:12 am on Jan. 14, 2009

I agree. Girls have too high expectations for guys these days, blame Edward Cullen guys
haha...and I still don't see why everybody is crazy about his looks or whatever..ew

it's not his looks that has raised girls expectations of


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Uradel


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Quote: from Rastafarian at 8:13 am on Jan. 14, 2009

Sure if you'll suck their cock at the drop of a hat, I'm sure many would do it.

Rescind what I said in my previous post.  If you do the above statement, your bf should do anything for you!  On the other hand, isn't that degrading?  
Just let the relationship flow in a chill manner, i.e. Listen to what I said in my prior post.


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Quote: from Anonymous at 8:10 am on Jan. 14, 2009

okay so i want my bf to always say im beautiful , open doors for me always want to hangout with me everyday , always want to talk to me and be there for me and always pay attention to me and do whatever makes me happy and always tell mehe loves me, of course it would go both ways but is that too much..
a bit time APART, is actually healthy for relationships

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The more you expect it the more your boyfriend is going to not want to do it, he'll be making himself do it. Stop putting expectations on people and appreciate it when they do something for you because they want to.

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My husband does that for me, but he is a rare find, and it works both ways.

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amber1991


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Quote: from strandedgirli at 8:12 am on Jan. 14, 2009

I agree. Girls have too high expectations for guys these days, blame Edward Cullen guys

Hey...even though I've read the whole saga doesn't mean that I'm about to want a guy that is like Edward Cullen. I stick to reality, always have. Also to the person that made the topic...that's asking just a bit too much.


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a lot of guys are like that

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bobbydigital


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no its perfectly normal to expect a slave to do those things

wait you said boyfriend? oh...

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Its okay to want this but don't always expect it, I am pretty laid back but I do get frustrated when my bf can't spend time with me sitting down and cuddling as he can't sit still for too long but I love him and wouldn't change that for the world but I wish that he would spend more time with me and not be flirting with my best friend.

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It depends on how long you two have been together for. It is too much to ask for and you are moving too fast if you haven't been together for long, like a couple of months or less. Your boyfriend should always compliment you, but he should not be obligated to spit out "I love you"s all the time or at all until he feels it. You want him to truly feel love, don't you? Not just say it without meaning it, right?

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