advice? some really life altering things have come up in my life and im afraid that if i tell my bf i need a break from dating that he will flip out, i have told him i needed a break many times before because i have alot going on in my life. he knows that my feelings for him have faded and i can see it in his eyes. i feel terrible about it but i need sum time to sort some things out in my own life and i cant be there for him completely rite now so i thought that a break would be a good idea. im not sure how to tell him this in a way where he would understand.... any ideas? ...