i have had an abortion and im in scotland so it was free also if you need to talk feel free to pm me
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So, have you given any thought to adoption? I'm afraid I don't have much idea, but it might be more economically viable, at least.
Also, don't try to terminate the pregnancy yourself, because you could end up with a severely disabled child, though I'm sure you know this.
If she can't afford a $700 abortion how is she supposed to afford a $7,000 delivery?
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Quote: from katrinadoodle at 9:54 pm on Jan. 3, 2009
If she can't afford a $700 abortion how is she supposed to afford a $7,000 delivery?
I've heard adoptions often involve some form of reimbursement. I could be wrong, though.
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Not unless you set up an open adoption, and even then it's not guaranteed.
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Quote: from katrinadoodle at 11:49 pm on Jan. 3, 2009
Not unless you set up an open adoption, and even then it's not guaranteed.
Well, if she's able to set it up in advance then it seems like that would be a reasonable option.
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Except for the fact that adoption only solves parenting, and not the problem of being pregnant, and she has already stated she has no wish to adopt out, and the fact that by the time she would be able to set up an adoption she would to far gone to abort and the adoptions fall through all the time - and then she'd be stuck with unwanted bills and an unwanted child.
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Quote: from katrinadoodle at 12:31 am on Jan. 4, 2009
and she has already stated she has no wish to adopt out
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So, have you given any thought to adoption? I'm afraid I don't have much idea, but it might be more economically viable, at least. 
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