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French dating culture
Replies: 6Last Post Jan. 3 4:00pm by CherieDee
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Ok, I could have made that a totally non-personal thread, but I kinda nneed a bit of help.
Alrighty, I had this french exchange partner stay at mine in November. It was a little akward at first, I mean, I didn't know what to say to him, all I said was "ça va" about a hundred times >_< but come the second week it was alright, watched some movies, shared some music. It was pretty cool.
Then on the wednesday, we were watching desparate housewives    and I was lying on the sofa. He just came and lied(sp?) next to me, huggin me and holding my hands o.0
And then the day after, he was like, petting my leg. And then we kissed a little bit *cough* a lot *cough*
And then he went home.
The next day, I get a FB message, saying that he thinks he loves me.
However, I know he has a gf, he knows I know too. I just don't know what any of this means, because It's like you have to translate the fucking culture. I know infidelity is frowned upon over there, but not nearly as much as it is here.
Aghh, I don't know anything anymore -_-
Right, so then Christmas, he got me some perfume, (Black XS ^_^) and Kon teddy from bleach. AS sort of an inside joke, becuase con in French, means like, moron/wanker ...
We were talking a lot on msn, and he was always like, "I miss you" "bisou x" which was cute. But he's not really talking to me much now. sort of like, one line FB messages. Mixed signals much?
So, I don't know what I'm doing. I don't even know why I'm making this topic.
I mean, he's acting like a complete arse, but maybe that's just the French way, arrogant and rude? Not that he's being arrogant, just rude.
Wait, maybe he's just trying to get into my pants. Hmm. But he has a gf, why does he need me -_-

Whatever. I don't care.
That's a lie, I really do, I'm just a bit confused and annoyed.
And I bet none of that made a whole lot of sense :)

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Don't trust the French.

In all seriousness, he does sound like he's a prick who is just using you for when he needs someone to give him attention.

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The French are strange when it comes to love. Mainly, they do whatever feels good. I can't speak for a whole country because each person is different, but infidelity is VERY common. Remember the French are passionate, sensual people, and you should understand things a little better.

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WOW  

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um i think it was a one day thing (:

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So... he could either be wanting two things: you or your ass. Even he wants you, he definitely wants your ass. So first, before moving on, you need to figure out if he wants your ass or you, as well. Then, you need to confront him about his girlfriend back home and what is going through his mind about this entire deal. Once you get an answer, then decide if you want to lead a sexual relationship with him while he is here because you know he will one day leave and chances are, you will not travel to France to see him. So think.

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Quote: from mentos13 at 3:55 pm on Jan. 3, 2009

um i think it was a one day thing (:

this.

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